Many men are so picky about choosing a lady of the heart. When you ask a bachelor over 30 if he is going to marry, he will only twirl his finger at his temple with the words: "What did I do wrong to you?" In the view of such men, the wife is a grumpy aunt with a rolling pin in her hands, but if a beauty like Angelina Jolie turned up, then one would think. Beautiful, stately, experienced, but to be younger. In the meantime, there are no such people - it means that it is not destiny!
So these men live from one casual relationship to another, not wanting to develop relationships beyond one or two days. But they know perfectly well who to marry. But, unfortunately, they are very much mistaken. And I'll tell you which women are really worth marrying.
The strangest delusion of men is that a gorgeous, bright, seductive "queen" should be taken as a wife. This is often believed by those who have not had the experience of intimacy with the same person for at least 2-3 years. In fact, in 5-7 years people get used to any appearance. Therefore, over time, it will no longer matter how the narrowed one looks. She can be a gorgeous beauty, an overweight lady, fill her entire body with tattoos, pep herself with piercings, etc. It does not change anything. If a man is polygamous, he will still be pulled “to the left”.
Therefore, men should not perform feats such as marrying a young woman or a beauty in the likeness of Jolie. This is the level of adolescents who have never been in a normal relationship. If you have hammered into your head that you must marry a beauty by all means, then it’s better not to marry at all. No need to spoil the life of yourself and the woman!
And who, then, to marry? On the one with whom your union is able to hold out on the "three pillars" - material, everyday and sexual compatibility. I propose to understand in more detail each of them.
Material compatibility
Life will not work for a greedy and a spender! You should treat money and spending in the same way. The ideal option is the union of two greedy people. He bought her roses for the action, and she is glad. Two spenders will also live well - they received a salary, and half of them were spent on pleasure that same day.
It is also important to take into account compatibility in terms of making money. If a woman always wanted to be a housewife, then a man she needs a hard-working and hardy one. And, on the contrary, if she has a lot of ambitions, and she is used to working as much as possible, she needs a man so that he does not get confused under his feet, and he has less ambitions.
Household compatibility
This compatibility is very important. Therefore, before going down the aisle, it is worth living together a little in order to understand that you are suitable for each other in everyday life. I know a lot of couples who got divorced not because of money, and in bed they were doing just fine, namely because of everyday problems!
Sexual compatibility
First, the need for sex should be similar. And then, maybe he needs 3 times a day, and she needs 2 times a month! This is where the problems will begin. Secondly, there should be general concepts of what is permissible in bed and what is not. Intimacy should be paired regularly and satisfying for both partners!
Here are the women to marry. On those with which you really match all the components. And your beauties will bore you a hundred times if you do not have consent in bed, in material terms and in everyday life. Of course, ideally, if the components coincide, the woman is a beauty, but not everyone is so lucky!
What do you think about this?
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