When a child rolls a scandal, you want to stop the Earth and get off. But there is a way out.A genius and at the same time a simple life hack, how to calm a child's tantrum, was invented by the mother of two boys
The best recipe for tantrums is hugs
When the eldest son Cindy was only 2 years old, he began to wither a strong-willed character, which was very difficult for her to withstand. A child could fall on the asphalt in the middle of the street and cry and scream loudly. At such moments, the woman calmly lifted him from the ground, and very tightly, with her whole body, pressed him to her. And even though he struggled, his mother returned him to her arms and
breathed deeplyso that the child, following her example, can restore calm breathing. In parallel, she said: "Leo, now it's time for hugs." And, lo and behold, the child calmed down in a couple of minutes. This ritual has become a family tradition that allows Cindy's sons to quickly deal with negative emotions.Hugging is the surest way to calm a child / istockphoto.com
Other proven methods
Childhood tantrums are a common problem for all parents in the world. There are no children who, at least sometimes, would not turn into a small uncontrollable monster, with which the confused mom and dad would not know what to do. What other techniques work with a bang?
Speak your feelings
Empathy and empathy are important ingredients that parents need to keep in mind. Any child's tantrum requires parental involvement - tell the child that you understand how upset, painful and unpleasant he is about the situation. Try to get the baby to say how he is feeling: "I am angry, I am in pain, etc." Very often, the reasons why children fall into hysterics seem to us, adults, to be nonsense and trifle. But here it is important to understand that for the baby it is a real tragedy. Don't discount his feelings!
Avoid the trigger
Determine what is the main source of your little one's resentment. Does he categorically reject the word "no"? Doesn't like when they take his toys? Can't stand being put on unloved things? When you know where that red tantrum trigger is, it’s easier for you to prepare for it and learn to react calmly. without screaming and swearing.
Work for warning
Try to avoid mental overload. Maintain balance in everything. Let the child go to bed on time, watch less TV, be more active on the street. The fact is that children can be banal hysteria because they are very tired. And yes, you can get tired of cartoons too. And how. Therefore, work to prevent hysteria - do not go too far, follow the daily routine, be sure to let the child throw out the accumulated energy. And then hysterics will bypass your house. If all the storm has struck, remember Solomon's wisdom: "And this will pass."
Try not to overload the baby's psyche / istockphoto.com
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