All we are waiting for this holiday, and we want more than ever to spend these days are bright with the family, take the time to beloved children. But in the pre hectic it has to last to feel the "pitfalls" celebration.
Like it or not, namely New Year's experience is particularly strong stick in the memory kids, and our task is to try to allow as little as possible "bias" on the run to the ideal family holiday. And it is better to carry out preventive work on the bugs. Getting Started?
Tip One
Not to tell the child about the New Year's holidays, but even more so about the appearance of this great tradition - who needs it? Father Frost, Snow Maiden, Christmas tree - this is all a child and so sees both at home and on every street corner, what else to explain? He grasps the remaining details as we go along, if he wants.
We, too, as a child no one talked, and Santa Claus in the kindergarten every year was teacher Valentina Petrovna. Incidentally, in his beard, in coat and... in a boat on his heels. And nothing, grew somehow without trauma, all understand ourselves and our children will understand. Especially in the age of the Internet are growing. Read Christmas stories, poems about winter or New Year - employment, do not carry any kind was good. As a letter to Santa Claus, which is advised to quit after writing in a mailbox on the street, or put in the freezer.
Tip two
In general, the longer you tell your child that Santa Claus does not. All the same, my child, and if possible to blackmail, "do not play, and the gifts Santa Claus did not bring a" very, very briefly. The more that psychologists say that children themselves understand "who to whom Santa Claus" as early as seven years. Well, a year later, the year before - what's the difference.
And then, the son is under the Christmas tree dorogushchy gift you were looking for, order, pay, was put under the Christmas tree - and to you, Mom and Dad no "thank you", but illusory grandfather in favor. What nonsense.
Tip three
Do not waste your time on the decoration of the house every tinsel - snowflakes, cockerels, lights and other flashlights - then only garbage bag will make out of the house. Maybe, and hand-made with the kids and unites the family, but you do, and so a lot of hassle. It's not up to cutting out snowflakes. If only jelly froze and whipped cream on the cake. And do not trust your child to decorate the Christmas tree - be sure something will break, break, ruin, and toys for money Lam.
Tip four
Arrange the spring cleaning. Real! And how could it be otherwise - for the New Year! We must remake everything what hands are not reached: things in cabinets bust, perestirat, peregladit all cubbyhole to clean - the house should sparkle as never before. Otherwise, what you mistress? Well, jelly cook, and herring under a fur coat, Olivier, "Napoleon" to soak. Of course, cleaning the kitchen and take away from you all day, and the child would feel abandoned. Nothing, but will review all of their favorite cartoons.
Pediatricians advise longer walk with the child before the New Year's Eve, so he running about, naprygalis outdoors to go to bed early? It is easy to say it, pediatricians, apparently, do not need to do the cleaning and the table cover. It's okay if my child will meet the New Year together with everyone, and try Mama's salads. Do not bother special children's table - cut out figures made from vegetables, cook patties steamed salads without mayonnaise - who is going to eat? It's okay if the baby is one day of the year my mother's taste the mayonnaise concoction on a common basis.
Tip five
Arrange the child during the winter holidays the most hectic schedule. To reduce it to all possible representations, and even the circus, a zoo, a ballet in Theater for Young People. I almost forgot about the dolphin! Let the little children these days are spent in a fun mess, will be remembered for a long time. Do not forget the visits to friends and family - holidays, gifts, poems on a stool, every minute should be filled with socializing. And do not take into account the advice of psychologists, that one or two events to doshkolenka - already a big emotional load, and then the child threatens Information "morning sickness." New Year - time in a year, this time should be used on all cylinders. At 100%! And point. Tired - have a rest after the holidays. However, there is a risk that the crowd of kids and adult child can catch the virus, but ARI soars everywhere, what now, spit on holidays?
Yes, and as a cherry on the cake forget to buy batteries to electronic gadgets under the tree. Let the child upset, cry - but to learn patience.
