It's so amazing, because I used to pretend to be nice and kind, just not to quarrel with people. But I'm sick of it. And I absolutely do not care if someone seems to me strange, bitchy, nervous ...
Here are the reasons why I have deleted many people from my life.
I don't like people being disrespectful.
I have only one life and is too short to spend it on those people who do not respect me. I'm not going to waste time getting mad at them. If a person stumbles, I will probably give him a chance, but I will not forgive him over and over again. Is an apology important here if a person constantly disrespects me?
I have nothing to talk about with those who do not share my attitude towards people
I was taught from childhood that it is, in principle, normal when people's opinions do not coincide. We are all different, right? But you cannot blame others for believing in something! It is one thing when a person does not like the show that I am watching, it is another thing if he hates some people. Everyone's life is valuable, and I'm not going to prove and explain this to anyone!
I'm sick and tired of not being put into anything
Previously, I chose the position of a weak person, and kept silent when I was offended and insulted. And then I suddenly had a desire to stand up for myself, and many people quickly left my environment. Yes, I started having problems communicating with others. Before, I was just a wimp, letting others take advantage of me. Some people didn't put up with the fact that I had changed. And I, too, did not put up with the behavior of some.
I'm not going to pretend to be nice and kind to avoid conflict.
Let me seem to someone sensitive, nervous and even bitchy, but what a concern to me! People who make mistakes really don't like being criticized. But in fact, they simply do not want to grow and improve. Therefore, when I delete people from my life, they also delete me from theirs!
I don't need toxic people around
I will not communicate with a person who does not respect me, and with all my behavior this shows. Why would I for the sake of someone doom myself to stress, making myself a polite madam? I will not interact with a toxic person just because he is an old friend of mine, work colleague or relative! If a person makes me nervous and unhappy, then I will say to him: "goodbye." And it doesn't matter to me who he is, it matters to me that I feel next to him!
I do not communicate with people with whom I do not experience any positive emotions.
Why let a person into our life if we rarely see each other, hardly talk, and we have no common topics for discussion? You should not continue to communicate with those with whom you can no longer get along! You should not even intersect with a person from whom there is continuous stress in your life, and no joy. I don't have the energy and time to entertain people for whom I mean nothing!
I want to live my life
It is only natural that many people leave our lives! This is a natural process! I may forget to write you a message, call you back, discuss something. I have the right to live my life, to solve my affairs and problems, accordingly, many people fade into the background, and then completely disappear from my life. This is not intentional, this is life!
I may seem rude to some, but I think that I just ceased to be comfortable! And this is not my problem!
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