It is a known fact that relationships change over time, and if at first your man carried you in his arms, gradually these heroes pass, and he no longer seeks to surprise, delight so often and does not run to you along the first call.
Such changes in the pair are normal. The whole life cannot be the same as in the beginning.
At first, everyone is trying to seem better, but gradually you get tired of it, and the feelings are no longer so acute, and they directly affect the behavior of partners in relationships.
But when is it worth sounding the alarm? When does a normal relationship stop being normal?
If you see any of these signs, you should end the relationship. Or, if possible, try to change this behavior.
And so, if he does the following, then the couple say goodbye!
1. Considers your hobbies and hobbies as nonsense
Here you are sitting after a working day and chatting. He talks about his deeds, you about yours and instead of support you hear:
- "stop toil with nonsense, apparently it's not yours"
- "listen, well, this is not popular and not relevant, who needs it now?"
- "maybe it's enough to tell me this already, I don't want to listen to this nonsense"
Did you feel all the pain? Do you feel your worthlessness from these words?
When a loved one speaks so about your favorite business, he hits the sick person. And if he does not even try to pretend that he is interested, then this person no longer loves you.
2. Criticizes and insults you in front of strangers
Imagine yourself at a friends party. You have been invited there along with other mutual friends and you are having fun, drinking and talking. In a conversation with other invitees, your companion gives out something like:
- "yes, except for dumplings, mine really doesn't know how to cook anything"
- "after cleaning it, you still need to clean it up"
- "have you seen her? No cosmetics will help her anymore "
How do you feel at this moment? Does a person who loves say such a thing?
No, no and NO! Run, and you shouldn't even find out the reason for this behavior.
3. Allows you to do male work
Sometimes it happens that you have to carry heavy bags or move furniture. But, as a rule, you do this when your man is not around. As soon as he appears, these worries fall on his strong shoulders.
Imagine a situation where your man says
- "yes to plow and plow on you, it will be useful to drag a couple of bags"
- "Listen, are you really not able to move the refrigerator yourself?"
- "What are you sugar, take it yourself, am I a loader for you?"
Do you feel like a woman being around such a man? Would a caring and loving person say so?
Never. A man will never allow his woman to do a man's work if he is around.
So think about who you are with? Whom do you call "beloved"?
These are some of the few signs that indicate a complete collapse of the relationship. In these situations, it is already difficult to change anything.
