In fact, family life, relationships in marriage - all this is in our delicate female hands. Sometimes we just go too far, start fanning a grandiose tragedy out of some trifle, and then we wonder why a man is not in a hurry to spend time with us, not in a hurry to go home ...
How to build relationships correctly, how to protect them and what to do to make your husband really want to return home? How to establish balance in a relationship, and not move away from each other? But it's enough just to avoid common female mistakes. And everything will be really very good!
Here are the most common mistakes a woman makes that push a man away from her.
The first mistake - a woman is waiting for a man to go home to dump on him all her problems that have occurred during the day
The female and male psyche are different from each other. We have it withstands a lot, but men do not, and, on the contrary, what men seem to be a trifle is difficult for us women to accept. So the emotional female bulk for men is quite burdensome. It is very difficult for them to be a "vest" in which to cry. You will laugh, but yes, it is hard work for men to listen to women's problems. Your partner, of course, should be able to listen to you, take part in your life, but be careful. You now throw out all your emotions on him, and he will be just shocked, and then you will calm down, and in general the problem will not seem so terrible to you! So learn to combine a delicious dinner, attention to a man with stories about your painful.
The second mistake - a taboo on the interests of men
We may sometimes not understand them. If you married a man, well, or began to cohabit with him, and immediately hang labels on him - he is a breadwinner, therefore he must earn money, and he must also take care of family members, devote all his free time to his loved ones and generally forget about his fishing trips, computer games and sports. Just remember that your man is a living person. Yes, he has responsibilities, but he still has his own opinion and he may have hobbies.
The third mistake - depriving a man of a leadership position in the house
Now he is a breadwinner, and you decide everything, he is, so to speak, the head, and you are the neck that turns this poor head in different directions. You do not need to take on the function of head of the family, even if the man lives in your territory and earns a little less. There is no need to force him to do something, but something does not. He is a man, he has to make his own decisions. Be at least more cunning, behave in such a way that the man thinks that he is deciding, and not you point out to him.
Mistake four - setting clear life rules
Well, you live by some of your own rules, you don't need to force a man to adhere to them too. For example: my plate is behind me, put clothes in their places, clean up after you. As soon as something goes wrong, the woman begins to get annoyed. Give the man freedom of action, do not become a burden for him. Be more tolerant of your man. Well, he didn’t wash the dishes, but the earth didn’t stop because of this! Over time, your partner will get used to everything, and he will adhere to all the rules. Better show him more love and affection, but do not become obsessive!
Sometimes women shift all responsibility in relationships to men. Or maybe it's better to analyze your mistakes? Believe me, if you get rid of them, you will become a truly happy woman.
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