Do you think that a psychopath is some kind of sophisticated maniac, killer, well, or a person who inadequately expresses his emotions? Unfortunately, everything is much more complicated!
You can consider an emotional psychopath for a long time to be a completely normal, rather sweet, charming person, and not even suspect that you have a completely unhealthy person in front of you. Today we are talking about men. After all, many women live for years with real emotional psychopaths, not realizing that they are simply being used.
How do you know that you have an emotional psychopath next to you?
A man constantly makes you feel guilty.
It is very rare for emotional psychopaths to say what they think. They are mostly compassionate and sweet. Suppose a man just insulted you and said nasty things, or maybe even threatened with physical violence, and after minutes he crawls almost on his knees, begging for forgiveness in the most affectionate words. And do you know what else he does? Shifts everything onto you: “Forgive me, I didn’t mean to offend / beat you, I understand that you didn’t want to ruin the evening. You just need to be less emotional... "
This will lead to the fact that over time you will become withdrawn, afraid to say an extra word or do something, because "you do not want to ruin the evening." Remember, an emotional psychopath never feels guilty, no matter what he tells you!
A man makes you doubt
He distorts and twists information, tries to make you doubt your memory, your feelings and your sanity. For example, you caught him cheating, and he twists everything, telling you that you humiliate him with your spying. As soon as you catch him at the scene of a crime, he turns everything over so much that you begin to doubt the reality of everything that happens and your correctness.
The man blames you for everything
He blames you for his life problems. He has failures at work, quarrels with friends, he will present everything in such a way that you will be to blame for this. You have an unhappy marriage - you are a bad wife, he was fired - it was you who pissed him off, and he was unable to concentrate on work. In general, he is a wonderful man, and you are a flawed woman.
A man humiliates you
It is important for a psychopath to control his victim, i.e. you. He controls your actions, words, and even thoughts. He just knows that as soon as you start thinking, it will immediately become clear to you that you deserve so much more. He will inspire you that you are ugly, unsuccessful, stupid, that you will not be able to meet better than him. He destroys your self-esteem with all his might, forcing you to believe in what is beneficial to him.
A man isolates you from other people.
He forbids you to see your friends, communicate with your family. He's just afraid that people close to you will reveal him, and you will understand what he really is. He convinces you that all your friends and even your parents are just jealous of you, do not want you to be happy, and do not understand how much he loves you.
The man presses on your sore spots
He knows that you do not love, that you dislike, and uses all of this at the right time. When you are broken, he will just hurt you very much. And he does not know how to show any sympathy.
A man does not know how to lose
He is confident in his superiority. And as soon as a situation occurs when they begin to doubt his coolness, he begins to behave inappropriately. He can leave, slamming the door, he will be offended for several days, or he can make a grandiose scandal!
An emotional psychopath cannot be altered at all. All that is in your power is to take your feet in your hands and run headlong! By the way, emotional psychopathy is a mental illness and it's incredibly contagious!
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