They say about hypocrites that these are people who stroke you, but in fact they just wipe their dirty hands on you. I think this is the best definition of such "entities"! And sometimes we quite often meet hypocrites, consider them friends, trust them, and take their false virtue for real. They literally fascinate us, and we ourselves endow them with the best character traits. After all, it's true, we ourselves do not see who we communicate with, and then we suffer because of this. And hypocrisy is just a terrible quality!
The hypocrite somehow masterfully hides his evil deeds and knows how to shift the blame onto others. He is a born deceiver, traitor and traitor. And such behavior for him is quite common, familiar. That is why to save yourself, I suggest you learn how to identify the hypocrites in your environment, so that later you do not regret that you somehow fell into their trap.
Ways to identify a hypocrite
His actions will say more about him, not words.
First of all, you need to pay attention to the actions of a person. As for the hypocrite, it is he who is able to seduce and charm those around him with his beautiful speeches. And here you need to be careful, because the words of a hypocrite are almost never backed up by his actions. He says one thing - does another! A hypocrite makes so many promises, but never keeps them. And yes, he also comes up with excuses to shield himself.
He feels superior to others.
The hypocrite is trying to prove to everyone that he is a very good person, the most calm, humble and modest. But it is worth taking a much closer look at his communication with others. And do you know what you will understand? That he simply cannot stand being in the same row with people! He believes that he has the right to behave as he wants, to say what he wants, but others generally cannot have such a right.
He blames anyone but himself.
Whatever happens, he will never admit his mistakes, never! Even if you manage to catch his hand in deception, he will still start to twist and turn everything over so that anyone will be to blame, even you, but not him. He somehow masterfully manages to get out of any even very difficult situation dry from the water. In this case, the person whom he accuses (and it will be you) simply loses all self-confidence.
He is a slave to his own ego
The behavior and thoughts of a hypocrite are influenced by his own ego, which he values above all else. And it is the egocentric nature that turns into the nightmare of the people around him. Over time, you will realize that this person has a "double bottom", and you just get tired of communicating with him. You will get tired of being constantly lied to, that everything revolves around him, that he constantly tells you what to do. You will get bored with this "swing" when you see deception, but again get an excuse for innocence.
He presses on pity
There are hypocrites who behave a little differently. As soon as you catch them in a misdemeanor, they begin to apologize, make a victim out of themselves, shed a tear, pressing on pity. They just love to make a victim out of themselves, come up with various heartbreaking stories, seek advice from you, but do not express any gratitude. In general, they will mess with your brains, and you will not soon understand that you are being used.
Hypocrites take advantage of our kindness, and they use any means for this. So, be careful, avoid communicating with such people, so as not to plunge into the abyss of lies, self-doubt and negativity!
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