Sergey's story is typical of our modern times. And, perhaps, with his story, he will open the eyes of other men so that they do not mess with their ex-wives again. However, if you replay the situation a little, then we can say that women should not return to their ex-husbands either. It is very stupid to step on the same rake twice!
When Sergey was a teenager, he somehow overheard a conversation between his older sister and mother. As he understood, their distant relative, who divorced his wife, decided to reunite with her again. The statements about him from his mother were incomprehensible: “Yes, I was lucky, you fool, again I decided to step on the same rake. He just gave up drinking, he looked like a man, and again he was carried to this bitch! " Sergei did not really understand anything, he even felt funny from something. And he would never have thought that a similar fate would affect him.
Sergey got married at the age of 29. They began to call him a convinced bachelor, but then she appeared! Lena attracted Sergei with her ease of communication, efficiency, energy and business acumen. And, of course, she was a very attractive slim woman, confident in herself. By that time, Sergei already had his own car, and they bought an apartment with Lena after the wedding, with his own money. Lena immediately made her husband a personal driver, and when she got his license, she took the car away from him. Lena's entire salary belonged to her, and Sergei did not even know how much she was getting. And his income was again hers and a little Sergei.
The relationship was immediately kind of tense, although this was not noticed before the wedding. Lena often made scandals out of the blue, pecked at Sergei for everything in a row, pointed to her place, which, as she herself believed, was under her thumb. Complete disrespect, and after a couple of years of torment, Sergei decided to divorce his wife.
But then it turned out that she was pregnant, and leaving her would somehow be unmanly. How much Sergei endured over the long 9 months. Lena beat him, and shouted at him every day, and was capricious. Before giving birth, he told her: “I put up with you all your pregnancy, and then just try to yell at me or get in a fight. After giving birth, you will be like everyone else, and do not try to hide behind postpartum depression or something else! "
But after giving birth, everything was smooth. While Lena was breastfeeding Masha, she was surprisingly calm. Sergei even thought that it was in vain that he and his wife were so, she changed, grew wiser, well, with whom it does not happen. But once the weaning went off brilliantly, it all started all over again. Lena was already yelling at Sergei, even when Mashenka was asleep. Nothing stopped her. Sergei even tried to talk to his mother-in-law so that she would tame her daughter, otherwise she would not hold back someday, and "will give bream." But mom is always on the side of her child.
During the next scandal, Sergei had to take Lena in an armful and put her on the bed. Within half an hour, her whole family knew that he allegedly beat her severely, and even her brother came to intercede. But, seeing the scratched Sergei and quite healthy Lena, my brother waved his hand and left with the words: "Deal with yourself!"
The last straw was that Lena began to prohibit Sergei from going hunting and fishing, seeing friends. After his next departure to the lake, Lena called him and shouted everything that came into his head. And he took her car without asking, and disobeyed her, went fishing. Even the peasants could hear her expressing everything to Sergei. Friends did not understand how he could tolerate such a bitch. Then Sergei returned from fishing, and while his wife was screaming, he collected his things, leaving for a rented apartment.
Then divorce, scandal after scandal, and relief from the fact that this shrew is no longer his spouse. A month later, Lena started calling her ex, telling him to come back, that Mashenka was bored. All her relatives connected, began to pester Sergei with calls, and one brother called and said: "Of course, your business, but the wives do not change, then it will be even worse!"
At first, these words of Sergei were restrained, but then he gave up and returned to the family. For several months everything was perfect, Lena probably endured as best she could, was silent more, stepped over herself. But, when one day Sergey was delayed at work, she was bombed. Sergei endured hysterics, but then Lena took the keys from his car. And the man was very bothered that he was returning home after work, and there was a mess and there was nothing to eat.
Nerves surrendered, and for the second time Sergei left his wife forever, leaving her an apartment and a car.
Have you had such a relationship experience? Here, so that at first they got divorced, and then got back together and everything is fine. Or do ex-wives / husbands really do not change?
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