Christina has a nice, pumped-up boyfriend Arthur. The couple has been dating for several months, they are now in a candy-bouquet period, and communication is straightforward. So Arthur has a friend Mikhail. He is 7 years older than him, but they have some common interests, and they spend a lot of time together. And now Christina also began to visit their company often. Initially, the girl had a feeling that Mikhail didn't like her very much, he just didn't show it. But one day the couple was invited to the company to spend time at the dacha, and this same Mikhail was there again.
Of course, in addition to kebabs and salads, there was alcohol on the table. So Mikhail, having sipped a couple of bottles of light, began to let go of some strange jokes, as if deliberately touching Christina. The girl was not ready for such a turn. She did not understand at all, yes, even if he was joking, but why so evil, and against Christina!
The situation was heating up directly, outright rudeness began on the part of Mikhail. He touched the girl's demeanor, and her appearance, and her character. Christina felt a lump in her throat. After another phrase of the rude man, everyone around fell silent. Before that, everyone giggled and supported Mikhail, but he began to go too far, so no one supported his stupid sarcasm anymore, but no one was in a hurry to stand up for the girl either.
Christina was sure that Arthur would do it, she thought that her boyfriend would react to the humiliation from Michael, and intercede for her, ask him to stop. But Arthur was silent, and he did nothing at all. Then everything came to naught, the fun for Christina was ruined, but she somehow endured everything.
A month has passed since that time. And now Mikhail invites Arthur and, of course, his girlfriend to his birthday. But she doesn't want to go there at all. Moreover, he teased her in such a boorish way, he still has a day, everything will be permissible. He hadn't even bothered to apologize to Christina in a month!
And it's not even about Michael, you can not communicate with him and not spoil your nerves. But Christina has a big grudge against Arthur, because they didn't say a word in defense of their girlfriend. She now considers him a weakling, because he could not or did not want to stand up for her. He just sat next to Mikhail, and listened to everything that he said, and at some moments he even laughed to the beat of his friend. And when Christina then tried to be indignant, asking Arthur why some stranger was insulting her, the guy muttered something in response, but did nothing!
And only now, a month later, Christina wondered if she should continue her relationship with Arthur. As everyone guessed, he decided to go to his friend's birthday party alone, without a girlfriend, once again showing disrespect to her.
I think if a man is interested in a woman, he will never allow anyone to offend her, neither in word nor in deed. Perhaps Christina initially did not see the real essence of Arthur, and he is an ordinary aunt. But what is so, what is different, why does she need him so? Why is she still delving into herself, and thinks whether she should communicate with him or not? I think that you shouldn't wait for someone to apologize to her, you need to cut everything down. By the way, I, in her place, would go to Mikhail's birthday party, and would lower him there below the baseboard so that everyone would laugh heartily, and then I would leave Arthur too!
What would you do? Would you date a man who can't stand up for you? And would you take revenge on Mikhail for his inappropriate offensive jokes?
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