Sometimes the relationship between a man and a woman turns into a real battle. The man attacks, and the woman has to defend herself. How many times the topic of domestic violence has been raised. Unfortunately, many girls are either afraid, or simply have nowhere to go, but even after humiliation, insults, and even assault, they still continue to live with tyrants. What do they endure, what are they waiting for, what are they hoping for? Generally incomprehensible.
From a young age I already knew from the experience of a relative that if a man touched his finger once, that's all, you need to leave, because all this will be repeated, and it is not clear what this can lead to at all. If the girls do not feel sorry for themselves, then maybe they will at least feel sorry for the children? Do you understand that one fine moment a man may not calculate his strength, and will hit so that you can no longer wake up? And what will happen to your children later is unknown!
I still remember when I was in my early 20s, a close friend called me and asked to hide her from her husband for a week. I was already married then, but without children. A friend had a little daughter. I have known for a long time that she and her husband are not getting along, but how can I go with my advice, and who of the women listens in such a situation. There is also love, family, father of the child. And so, a friend calls me, and directly begs me to hide her for a week at home. And the voice is desperate, the hysteria is straight with her, tears are in a stream. I didn't even ask her unnecessary questions, but told her to come.
A friend arrived in 10 minutes with a backpack, in which there were documents and with a huge checkered bag, in which were the things of her daughter. Well, and, of course, she brought with her a small six-month-old bundle, always squeaking and screaming.
It was clear from her friend that she was going in a hurry, she did not collect a lot of things. From her clothes - at least, the main thing for the baby has collected everything she needs. Then she began to put her daughter to bed, and when she did, she began to tell me her story in all colors. To be honest, my hair stood on end when I heard how my husband treated her, the baby, how he insulted them, how he beat her. And after all, she did not tell anyone anything, she kept justifying him all the time, but she blamed herself, hung noodles on her relatives. I, of course, was shocked by what I heard.
And my husband was even more shocked when he returned home, because he did not know that we had guests. I didn't even have time to warn him about everything. But he is an intelligent man, saw the state of his girlfriend, and said that he would sleep in the hall. My friend and I stayed in the bedroom. And the first night he spent the night in the hall, or rather, he did not sleep at all. The baby woke up at night - cried. In general, my husband was already going to work with a suitcase, looked like a squeezed lemon, and said that while he was staying with a friend.
We stayed at home with a friend and her child, she didn't even leave the house all week, she was afraid that her husband would find her. The friend's relatives arrived only on the tenth day - this is her sister and her husband. We were a little late, we could not buy tickets. The husband probably called his friend, but she immediately turned off the phone. And for some reason he didn't think of calling me, he just didn't know me well.
So, when my friend finally returned to her parents, then I could only breathe a sigh of relief. So I was worried about her. We were safely reunited with my husband, and then discussed the whole situation for another month. No, he did not reproach me, he was stunned by her friend's husband.
Now more than 10 years have passed, and the husband of a friend still cannot calm down. Imagine how much it was necessary for a woman to get it, that she refused alimony and absolutely any communication with her ex!
But the former himself says to everyone that he pays alimony to her, and in general that she is walking, with a nasty character. I'm shocked to be honest. After all, he got off so easily, a friend could write a statement against him for assault, but she did not get involved in it. So he walks now, like a peacock with a fluffed tail, glues girls, tells what an exemplary father he is and an amazing man. But on his face it is written that he is a tyrant, but the girls are still being carried on, signing their own verdict with their own hands ...
Do you think specimens like this change at all? Or is there only one way out - to run, where to go?
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