One gets the impression that the current situation with marriage, and who will do it faster in races, began to resemble Olympic competitions.
Some ladies are ready to do anything to get a marriage proposal as soon as possible, and to boast of this victory in front of the whole world.
- Like, look, I'm normal, they called me to marry!
How many women feel normal if they are not married, they have no children, and their age is over 25 years old? I don’t think so. It is difficult to withstand such pressure from society.
- We hear from every iron that getting married is almost like winning the lottery. That happened to you, and that's it, life was not lived in vain!
- The same goes for children. Didn't give birth - not a woman!
The female sex was so "puffed up" by this topic that the majority of free young ladies have a defensive reaction, and as a result - rudeness, in response to questions that relate to their personal life. And they can be understood!
- What would you do if you were forced to eat what you don’t want or dress in a way you don’t like?
Therefore, there are things that are more important for a woman than status - “happy mother and wife”.
Read and memorize. What is more important for a woman than family:
1. Self-sufficiency and the ability to stand up for oneself.
How many women were killed in battle when abandoned by their husbands? When were their children taken away from them and they could not do anything? And all because at some point, the woman lost her life and dedicated it to her husband and children.
Nobody teaches women that you need to be able to do everything by yourself (but God forbid, of course, hang everything on yourself), but you cannot lose knowledge and skills of social life.
What if you have to do everything yourself?
Yes, you will be trampled if you are used to solving all your problems for you. And it will happen at the most inopportune moment.
2. Friends and people who love and respect her.
Many women who are married completely dissolve in family life, they do not meet with girlfriends and friends, they rarely see their loved ones. It seems to them that the world is closed on children and relationships with a spouse.
At this time, husbands continue to meet with their friends, they have work and colleagues, and many acquaintances. They do not drop out of society! And if it is accepted in your family, and you understand that your marriage is falling apart, you are left alone with your problem, because previous ties have been severed and you cannot be frank with those with whom you have not communicate.
And many men use this, and manipulate the words - "but who needs you besides me."
3. Hobbies and favorite work
It is not necessary to torture yourself, working for wear and tear, especially if your husband provides you with everything you need. But, hobbies and favorite work, not only generate income, but also make you more valuable in the eyes of your husband.
After all, you are not just his wife, you are someone's colleague and you are the right person at work, but you also have hobbies and hobbies, which means people who share it all with you.
Your life is not fixated on him alone, and this not only gives you self-confidence, but also does not allow your husband to consider you his pet.
And even if he suddenly decides to leave you, or behaves inappropriately, it will be easier for you to cope with situations and move on.
- These are the three pillars on which a woman's life should be supported. Do not limit yourself to your husband and children.
And if we talk about marriage, then the husband will be more interested in a wife who is versatile and communicates with people than one who sees and does not know anything except home and family. And such a mother will be a good example for children!
