Imagine you find yourself in a circle of people you know little or do not know at all. You are a little confused, but you really want to make a good impression of yourself. Hope my tips will help you!
According to psychologists, the first thing to do is to convince yourself that others will like you. And for that you need to work with your confidence. If a person believes that others will think of him in a positive way, then he will behave more relaxed, calm and friendly with new acquaintances. And in this case, of course, it will turn out to win over people.
Of course, do not forget about other attractive techniques - smile, eye contact, attentiveness and interest in the interlocutor.
If all of the above turned out to be not enough, then here's what else you can do:
Give compliments and flattering words to your interlocutor
You can start a conversation with a question-answer format, so you can find out more information about a person, but it is important to observe the measure so as not to seem too intrusive. Once you have enough information about your interlocutor, you will already gain confidence that you can make him an appropriate compliment, which, as they say, "will come in"! Absolutely every person likes to be praised, when he is appreciated. Therefore, this tactic will help you build good friendships.
Be a patient and attentive listener
If you "got" such a person who willingly tells something about himself, then do not take away from him the opportunity to pour out his soul once again. By the way, scientists claim that 40% of a person's daytime speech falls on just stories about himself, and the like. conversations can be as enjoyable as material goods, food and sexual satisfaction! So this strategy is generally a win-win.
You need patience to listen to such stories, as well as attentiveness in order to notice for yourself some new information about the interlocutor. And you don't have to give advice, answer something, sometimes a person just needs an attentive listener!
Watch what you say and how you do it
It is worth paying attention to your words by carefully choosing expressions and phrases. For example, instead of using the word "need" in your speech, say "I would like to." It would seem such a trifle, but she will tell the interlocutor much more about you than you think. You will be able to show a new acquaintance that you do what you want, and not what is needed or required. It will definitely please others.
Show your vulnerability
To gain the trust of others, you need not be afraid to show your vulnerability, your weaknesses. Don't try to make yourself perfect. Because perfect people don't exist. With your impeccability, you can only please a few. So it's better not to try to put on some kind of mask, be real, natural, alive. You can even share with your interlocutors the stories of your falls and defeats, so you will surely endear them, showing that you are a simple person, and they will be drawn to you. Just do not turn into a dull creature who is completely dissatisfied with himself, and has lost all interest in life after his mistakes. Try to keep the story positive, humorous and ironic.
What techniques do you use to make a good impression on people?
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