Such stories are happening more and more often.
For example, in some European countries, it is customary to leave children with their fathers if the marriage breaks up for one reason or another. And the woman pays alimony and, by court order, meets with the child at the appointed time.
And if it was possible to disperse peacefully, the meetings take place by agreement of both parties, in any quantity, without time limits.
In Russia, this behavior is new, although both spouses take part in raising a child at the birth of a child.
So why in Russia, after a divorce, all the chores remain with the mother? And some fathers do not even pay child support and cannot be attracted in any way if they have no income. The mother, in turn, cannot afford to "chill out"! She is obliged to educate, feed and clothe the child.
Well, now about this situation and how it ended up in the end.
And so, the husband announced that he no longer loves his wife, that he found the very one and wants to connect his life with her. And he leaves his wife: she has grown somewhat fat, is no longer as beautiful as before, in short, stopped loving, tired, only saws and interferes with life!
The woman's first reaction was shock.
Of course, their relationship was no longer the same as before... But after all, everyone lives like this, there is no such thing that people adore each other all their lives. All married couples sooner or later experience difficulties and they just need to be overcome and endured. But the husband of this woman did not want to fight, he decided that it would be easier to change his wife, and then everything would be fine. As they say from scratch. But it was not there.
His wife prepared a SURPRISE for him!
On the day when the husband was leaving, the wife, instead of saying goodbye, put him a suitcase with their child's belongings and said that he was leaving with him, that she would visit him and pay alimony.
The bewilderment of her husband knew no bounds! How so? I plan to start a new life, all this is no longer interesting to me. What do I have to do with it, I don’t understand?
To which the wife replied:
Dear, you have found love for yourself, you have a job and a future, and I need to arrange my personal life, therefore, we have no other choice. If she loves you, she will love our baby too. It makes me very sad and painful, but it will be better for everyone!
As you understand, the man had no way out, he took the child and brought him to a new woman. The first days everything was not bad and for a while it seemed that everything was working out for them. But, a week later, her husband's new beloved could not stand it and said that she did not need his child, and that when they decided to live together there was no question of any children. In the end, she would like to give birth herself, and other people's children are not at all interesting to her, moreover, all this fuss is a burden for her.
As a result, the man persuaded his wife to take the child back to him, and she set the conditions for him to consent to the official deprivation of his parental rights, divorce and other paper issues. And he agreed.
A year later, he parted with new love, she kicked him out with the words that he was not at all the person she had imagined him to be. initially, that he had changed, became not interesting and boring, and in general, one very nice colleague.
The man was very upset and wanted to improve relations with his ex-wife, but there was no longer a place for him in her house. A man was found who also needed a stranger's child. Moreover, he adopted him! And the ex-wife lost weight, prettier and was happy.
The moral of this fable is as follows. Do not exchange an awl for soap, and even more so do not give up children. After all, they blindly trust us and love us unconditionally. This is not a toy or piece of furniture. It's a personality! And you can easily stay at a broken trough if you do not solve problems, but run away from them.
