In our time, there is no shortage of men, as, for example, in the war and post-war times. There are many men, but there are few worthy men and there are not enough of them for all. Girls jump out to marry anyone, suffer half their lives and end up being alone for old age years, because time has passed, and a frayed nervous system and negative experience do not allow building new relations.
Therefore, it is very important to initially make the right choice of a companion with whom you will connect your life and have children.
In the next article I will write a list of qualities that men SHOULD be married to. But, for now, check out the list of those you DO NOT NEED to marry.
1. Womanizer.
Well, everything is clear here, right? It is very comforting to self-esteem when a womanizer chooses you as his wife. Each such bride feels herself chosen. But, they chose you only because you do not want to notice cheating and your future husband understands this perfectly. And sooner or later you will get bogged down in his betrayal and tired of forgiving.
2. Lazy person.
Do you need a man who needs to be forced to do basic things? When for him to throw out the trash is a feat! If you raise elementary things to the rank of merit, you will gradually slide into a household pit, where there will be too many things to do and you will not be able to cope with them alone. And your hero will lie on the couch and complain about the government without trying to change anything!
3. Narcissus.
Now there are so many men of this type that it becomes scary. And these men do not just love themselves, they absolutely do not love and do not want to love other people, and therefore care about others. Your whole life will be like "dancing in a cap" about one single person. And if you manage to have children with such a character, he will not allow you to put the child in the first place and then conflicts will begin. And then you have to make a choice. There is no other way. And the narcissist will find himself a new admirer who will love only him.
You can supplement this list with a "mommy's son", a tyrant, a bore, a whiner and many more. But, you can still work and live with these types, but the above-mentioned personalities practically never change. If this happens, then the changes are temporary and in the future everything will return to the original data, if it does not get worse.
