How dependent is a woman on men to the extent that this lack was unbearable for her? In fact, there is no pain threshold here, as practice shows, women live peacefully for themselves without gentlemen and are even very happy with this coincidence. But there are so many stereotypes around such loners!
A woman lives alone, without a man, and this has been going on for 10 years! What's wrong with her? Why is everyone different, but she is alone?
Stereotypes about single women
The first stereotype says that absolutely all single women are evil bitches. They are gloomy, mischievous, unsociable aunts. Because the goal of every lady in the world is to be popular with at least some kind of shitty man, and single ones don't even have such a demand, so they go evil.
The second stereotype claims that a long stay without a man, namely without intimacy, has a very harmful effect on the female body. Dissatisfaction, dissatisfaction with oneself, and, as a result, with the whole world around.
The third stereotype says that a woman without a man is not at all adapted to life. She cannot find a good job, build a career. The fate of singles is to work as nurses or technical assistants, to live at least in the basement and to pull out four children, who have been taken from somewhere, is incomprehensible!
Or maybe everything is completely wrong?
Can't a woman be completely happy if there is no male snoring in her house, socks and bottles with cigarette butts scattered in the corners? If you believe all these stereotypes, then you are lonely, then you are nobody? Here are just life experiences prove the exact opposite. There are so many successful, well-groomed ladies around who deliberately chose loneliness, and do not worry about it at all!
Woman without relationship
I have one such familiar woman without a relationship. She is really alone for almost 10 years! There are no men at all in her house. Even to fix something, to assemble-disassemble - all by myself. If it's extremely difficult to cope, he calls the master. He doesn't flirt, doesn't drink tea, talks about the problem, he solves it, gets paid and leaves.
In general, he does not like men, he says that they are like cockroaches. If you start at home, they are dirty, mess and unsanitary conditions. There are many gigolos around, all of them are flattery. Yes, even if not gigolos, there are a lot of peasants who cheat, walk away from their women, draw all their strength out of women, because they work and serve roommates / boyfriends / husbands.
And, by the way, this lonely neighbor looks just stunning. Here, after all, as most women do - they dress up and paint in order to catch admiring men's views, but if there are no peasants on the horizon or have already jumped out in marriage, you can be a scarecrow transform. But the neighbor is not like that, she always looks great, and managed to build a very good career. Itself in the car, dressed expensively, always make-up, the house is full. Why does she need a man? He says there is no need!
And I have a question about such women who have been single for a long time. They have everything, they are beauties, the character is golden, i.e. do not fall under the stereotypes of loners at all, but what is wrong with them? How can such charming be left without male attention? Is it worth believing all the same neighbor who says that she does not need men, and not she for them? Or maybe she is disingenuous? It's very interesting to hear your opinion in the comments!
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