The forums are teeming with topics: "How to improve relations with the mother-in-law?", "How long can the mother-in-law tolerate?", "How the mother-in-law got me!". There are those who stand up for these "poor" women, because sooner or later we will all become mothers-in-law and mother-in-law. I will not rebuild anyone with negativity, on the contrary, I want to tell you a few real stories about my mother-in-law, taken from women's forums. Hold on!
“I don't eat meat, from the word at all. My husband eats meat, but he cooks it for himself, I do not mind, and I don’t read lectures to him. The mother-in-law is outraged by this. She often came to visit us with her meat, cooked it, hissing at me that I was selfish, that I should be ashamed that this was some kind of nonsense in my head. And this "poor woman" got it into her head that she should teach me how to cook meat. I'm not just a vegetarian, I'm in general for the protection of any animals, I really feel sorry for them. And imagine how bad I feel when my mother-in-law comes with the carcasses of rabbits and pokes me in the face with fur paws! "
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I got pregnant, and my husband's mom started teaching me what to do and what not. You can't cut your hair, you can't knit, but the strangest thing she said is that you can't kick the dogs, you can use a slipper, but you can't kick, otherwise a baby without legs can be born. I have a pesel, it weighs only 2.5 kg. When we had to leave, we always left him with our mother-in-law. I cried so much, imagining that she was kicking him... "
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“My husband and I met for only 5 months before the wedding. When his mother was told that we had registration in a month, she started yelling at me. Like I want to enrich myself at the expense of their family, I came from the village, flew in from her son, a Muscovite. And I am generally from St. Petersburg and was not pregnant. And in general I could not get pregnant for 10 years, and, of course, my mother-in-law called me a barren flower. And right in front of me she told my husband that he needed another woman who would give birth to his child. Then we still had a daughter, a complete copy of me, and six months later, another pregnancy, twins! The mother-in-law did not calm down, yelled at me that I, like a cat under the fence, give birth and give birth, and her poor little son should support us all. Boys were born with us, and at one holiday my mother-in-law called me back and said that I should almost worship her, and then she would not tell her son that the daughter was not from him. Horror!"
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“My mother-in-law from the very beginning did not pretend, and right on the day of my wedding she showed herself. As soon as after the ransom, which she insisted on, I left the room, she looked somewhere through me and said: “Where is the bride, anyway?”, Thus showing her reaction to my outfit. When my mother cried at the registration, my mother-in-law ran into her: “Why are you crying? This is what I need to cry, because the most beloved and only man is being taken away from me. " And then she sobbed loudly, as if not a wedding, but a funeral. But the worst thing was when they took a picture of the family, and my mother-in-law asked me to leave the frame. And I left. I took a bottle of cognac from the table, my girlfriend and went to the park nearby. Then my husband came and brought his mother, thinking that I needed her apology. And she made a surprised face and said: "What have I done?" Thank God this woman lives far from us now! "
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“I have always tended to be overweight. And somehow, after marriage, she began to gain kilograms, did not even notice how much she had grown fat. I decided to urgently lose weight, started counting calories, go to the gym. I lost weight, but sports became a habit, and I wanted a relief body. Then I decided to take sports nutrition. Mother-in-law, when she found out, started yelling at my husband and me, like I'll become a man from this food, and give birth to ugly children. Then I got pregnant, and at the screening they said that the fetus most likely has Down syndrome. And then the mother-in-law suffered. She called all the relatives and went around all the acquaintances to tell them that she was right. We stopped communicating with her altogether. And I gave birth to a healthy baby. The doctor was mistaken, my son was just in my breed, he was born at 5 kilograms, and the doctor took the folds on his body for signs of a syndrome. My son now has only one grandmother - my mother! "
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I have had two marriages. And I entered the second with my daughter from the first. The mother-in-law was very happy about this, but not because she wanted grandchildren so much, but she just thought that I would give birth again, and the older child would look after the baby. But I didn’t give birth anymore, and my husband and I didn’t grow together, we decided to divorce. Here the makings of a lawyer were revealed in the mother-in-law. She insisted on dividing the apartment that I had acquired before my marriage to her son. The mother-in-law said that I was not given to her son as a virgin, therefore he has a moral trauma, and he deserves compensation for this. And like any court will side with him, so I need to voluntarily agree to this... "
Do you have interesting stories about your mother-in-law? Share in the comments!
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