We women are so crazy! When we fall in love, we sometimes begin to do such stupid things, for which we are very ashamed later. It seems to us that for the sake of our beloved we are able to move mountains, get all the stars from the sky, carry out real madness! A woman in love wants to show a man that there is no one in the world better than him, and no one can replace him. And this is where mistakes begin that can harm the relationship.
Here are the mistakes a woman makes when she falls in love with a man.
She gives him too much and too soon
A man is by nature a breadwinner, a woman is interesting to him, when she needs to be conquered, to achieve. Therefore, you should not rush to give yourself completely to the relationship. Everything has just begun for you, it is important to be aware of reality. No matter how good you feel around this man, do not indulge in "all bad". Do not rush to make plans for the future, otherwise you yourself can bring the breakup closer.
She closes her eyes to the alarm bells
A woman in love sees everything around in pink. And absolutely everything seems to her so romantic and sweet. Therefore, she can turn a blind eye to warning signs. It's one thing when it's really impossible to notice them, it's another thing when you see them and think that everything will change later, that there is nothing terrible. Alarming signs are deception, rudeness in your address, and a man can disappear for no reason, and then just suddenly appear. When the rose-colored glasses fall and you see reality, it can get very painful!
You make more compromises than you should.
Compromise is a good thing. But, if in a relationship only a woman goes to them, and a man always insists on his own, this is dangerous. Do not forget about reality, love yourself, listen to your desires. Maybe earlier you promised yourself that you would never meet with a swearing man, but now you endure a mat from your man because you are in love with him? Or does your boyfriend sometimes become aggressive towards you, but you turn a blind eye to it because you like him? You just look for excuses for him, such disrespect should not be tolerated.
She builds her life around him
It is he who says when you meet, and you cancel all your plans, it is he who chooses the meeting place, and you silently obey. You have nothing to do without him, your whole life is centered around him. But it's not normal to always adjust to a man! You should have your own time, your plans, hobbies, business, friends.
She pretends not to be who she really is
A woman in love wants to appear the best in front of the one she likes. And it's very bad that in this case you have to pretend, sacrifice something, hide behind a mask. Sooner or later, a man will still see your true face, and then he may be disappointed in you. It is important to remain natural, to be yourself, and not to build yourself out of who you are not.
She compares herself to his ex
Every person has a past. But women so often complicate their lives by starting to delve into the past of their men. Don't compare yourself to your ex. You don't have to look for flaws in yourself, become different from her, or, on the contrary, copy her. And don't tell your partner that his ex is prettier than you. This will force him to prove the opposite to you again and again. And men don't like it. So do not harass him or yourself!
Have you made similar mistakes in your relationship?
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