Parents are the most precious thing for every person. But their life, like the life of each of us, is not eternal. At one point they simply will not be. It's just that in one second everything can end forever. Your life, which you have built brick by brick from year to year, may simply collapse, crumble, and at the most unexpected moment. And who can wait for this moment? Unfortunately, parents cannot live as long as we would like!
The worst thing about all this, that we do not appreciate, what we have now, we do not understand how lucky we are, and then it becomes too late, and we suddenly realize it all.
Here are the things that will change when your parents are gone forever.
You will begin to understand the value of the family.
No friends, no girlfriends, no colleagues, no acquaintances - no one in this life is as important as your family. No one will ever love you as selflessly, unconditionally and strongly as your parents. Even when you fought, your parents never turned away from you. Yes, they could scold you, take offense at you, but all this was as an educational process, so that you understand that you are doing wrong. And they never really turned their backs on you. Remember how you reacted to their words: "We only wish you all the best!" When they are gone, you will understand that they have always said sincerely.
It will hurt you to lose your parents
While they are alive, you did not think about their death, and you did not think that it would be so difficult for you. Now they are gone. And every time you get sick, you will understand that your mom will no longer call to inquire about your health, your dad will not come to bring you medications. No one else will call you just to ask how you are, no one will wish you good night. And you will want this most of all in life.
You will feel lonely and overwhelmed
Over time, the pain will not go away, you will be lonely forever, you will feel overwhelmed and abandoned. It's just that humility will come with time.
Your parents won't see grandchildren and great-grandchildren
You cannot spend family holidays together, take photos where you are all together. Your parents will not come to your daughter's birthday, and will not wait for your son to visit. This will be nothing.
It will hurt you to hear someone complaining about their parents.
It will simply drive you out of yourself, because you will be ready to give everything in your life, just to hear your mother's voice on the phone again. Let her even scold you for something.
Your pain won't go away
Sometimes it will start to cover you, and you will cry as bitterly as on the day of loss. The pain does not go away, it only gets a little weaker.
You will start to envy those whose parents are alive.
Your envy will even grow into hatred. You will curse those who start complaining that they had to go to their parents on vacation instead of resting at sea, that instead of a day off in bed, they have to trudge with their old people to the dacha.
All your holidays will get boring
You will no longer be so pleased with the big holidays: birthday, Christmas, New Year. All this will become boring, incomplete and lonely.
You will learn many secrets
You are about to find out some secrets from the life of your parents. And you, finally, will understand that they were not only your dad and mom, but also ordinary people.
When something happens, you will want to call them.
You will begin to catch yourself thinking that you really want to call the number that will never answer again.
You will realize how much you loved your parents.
Unfortunately, we realize that someone was loved deeply only when it’s too late.
This is all very scary, but inevitable... Call your parents!
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