Stop thinking that you are doing well! Enough to amuse yourself with hopes that everything will change for you! Enough to close your eyes to what is visible even to the blind! If a man says such phrases to you, he does not respect you, and it's time to run away from him!
If there is no respect in a relationship, nothing good will come of them. You can continue to endure it, but you must understand that you are wasting your time, your life! If a man told you at least 3 phrases from the list below, I advise you to reconsider your relationship with him, and make a choice in favor of your own happiness!
"I work for us, do you?"
Here it is when a man works, and a woman sits at home with children. Do many daddies really think that to deal with children, yes, even just to look for them, so that they do not eat something from the floor, dine on normal food and do not harm themselves, this is just spit? And this is how those who have never been alone with their children reason.
It's a shame for our women that because of such fools they are forced to go to work, and in the evenings sit with children, cook food, clean up. And these same fools continue to simply work and indicate how and who needs to behave!
"All women are stupid!"
An attempt to belittle your woman and show her your place. Let the phrase be said a little differently or even in a humorous form, but in any case it is humiliating! Researchers have proven that there are as many smart women as smart men! And there is no need for this praise of your mind in order to humiliate your partner, it would be better to direct your mind to support your beloved woman!
"We don't need it / it doesn't matter"
Let's say we don't need this sofa / renovation / vacation. This is a direct devaluation of a woman's desires. So says only a weak man who is not going to work to improve the comfort and life of the household.
"Again, those silly emotions of yours"
Or: "You are hysterical", "I am tired of your psychos", "how much you can cry", "stop whining", etc. If a woman is unhappy with something, for example, she is upset that they spend little time with her husband, that he doesn’t help her with the child, that he doesn’t go anywhere with her, or, if she was angry that he didn’t rinse the plate behind him, put a chair in the wrong place, etc., what is it that she expresses her emotions?
For a man, things that make a woman nervous seem trifling, but for her it can be a whole disaster! And it's too bad that he doesn't respect your emotions!
"You brought it to this yourself / it's your fault"
It turns out that he is angry, he shifts all the responsibility to you! A man says so if he is caught cheating or if he hit a woman. This is full bottom!
"You are a manipulator!"
But after all, both women and men always want something from the second half. And scientifically, all human speech is 100% manipulation!
"Find another, since something does not suit you!"
If he says so, then he is ready to spend! He doesn't care what you want, why you cry, he doesn't care that you are offended by him. He is not going to change anything and change himself for you. It's easier for him to brush you off and send you where to go. He doesn't care if you leave or not, so why don't you leave him?
Lovely women, face it! Maybe it's enough to independently pull on the well-being in a relationship? Maybe you will already begin to love and respect yourself? If your partner constantly offends you with such phrases, then it's time to leave him alone, let him enjoy himself, only without you!
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