Relationships are tricky. It may seem to you that you are doing everything right, but you do not understand why your man is angry with you, offended, became rude and inattentive. Of course, the reasons for this may be different. But today we will discuss the behavior of a woman. There are some things that a man cannot forgive his beloved, despite very strong feelings for her.
Yes, not only we women can be offended by this or that behavior of the chosen one. You can't even imagine what a vulnerable soul men have! And now it's not only about treason, her men rarely forgive, and this is understandable. Now we are talking about other things. According to psychologists, you need to be more careful in some issues, otherwise you can permanently lose respect, attention, love and the man himself!
Things Men Don't Forgive Lovers
Public criticism
In a relationship, criticism is inevitable. You are different people, you have different opinions, you argue, criticize each other - and this is considered normal! But, all this should remain exclusively between you, you cannot, as they say, take out quarrels in public. Even if you are in front of your closest people: best friends, relatives, still do not criticize your beloved.
The denial in him of a man
A man should feel like a man in a relationship, and not become secondary. Whatever he is, he is primarily a man. A woman's gaze, which reads: "I see a man in you," is not able to compare with anything. Treat your beloved, as it should be, do not take him for granted, thank him, indicate that you are proud of him, that he is strong. And never, hear, never say the words: "You are not a man!". He will feel if you treat him as not a man, and will not forgive you for this!
Silly jealousy
Jealousy isn't always a bad thing. There are situations in life when jealousy is an adequate healthy reaction. But women are definitely jealous more and more often than men. Hence, problems appear in the relationship. If you torture your partner with interrogations about where he was, who he was with, who called, whom he saw, why so late - sooner or later he will get tired of it, and you risk being left in splendid isolation. The man will think that you are not sure of him, you do not trust him, and will simply think that he does not belong next to you.
Manipulation
The man in the family is in charge, and he will not like it if the woman begins to use and manipulate him. After all, the basis of manipulation is weakness, and no man wants to feel weak! In a relationship, one must not only take, but also give. And, if you have an exclusively user-friendly attitude towards your partner, then do not think that it will take you a long time to get away with it. Sooner or later, the man will not stand it, you will lose him, and he will never be yours again!
Insults
Humiliating attitude, insults, obscenities - men will not tolerate this. And it doesn't matter if these insults fly to the partner, or to his friends / relatives, he will acutely feel all this, perceive it painfully, and think: is she next to him. For men, the most important thing is pride, honor and respect! If you try to trample on it, then your chosen one will definitely leave. If a quarrel is brewing between you, think over the course of the whole conversation in advance, refuse humiliating and offensive words and phrases. Indeed, sometimes, in a fit of anger, a person is able to blurt out something that he did not even think to say, just to “bite” the interlocutor more painfully. Don't experiment. Sometimes you need to ask yourself the question: "Which one do I want to be right or happy?"
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