It has long been known that a child cannot grow up independent if mom and dad take too much care of him, showing overprotection.
But where is the line between rational concern, keeping your baby out of trouble and over-controlling?
Psychologists decided to help parents by identifying 5 things with which you should not help your child under any circumstances.1. Don't look for friends for a child
Let him choose his circle of friends, socialization is an important stage in the development of everyone, is it possible to deprive a little man of this?
2. Do not do homework instead of the child.
Help, explain - why not?
But if the mother has to do everything herself so that the baby gets a good mark, a problem is brewing.
Let your child know that you are there, but you will not insure the moment when he simply does not want to learn.
5 things parents shouldn't do instead of a child / istockphoto.com
3. Do not resolve conflicts between your child and other children.
Children do not like it when their parents intercede for them, because this makes them seem weak. There is no need to intervene in a local conflict without even giving the child a chance to fix something. Just keep the situation under control.4. Don't answer questions for a child
If the child was asked what his name is, do not rush to answer for him.
This advice seems elementary, but for some reason many parents continue to be responsible for their children, even when they have grown up.
5. Don't clean the room instead of the child
Each mother has her own view of attracting a child to household chores, but for himself, so to speak, the baby must learn to clean from an early age. This instills in him a respectful attitude towards the work of the mother and those around him.5 things parents shouldn't do instead of a child / istockphoto.com
Recall
- in the United States, a girl was born who is only two years younger than her mother.
- Ratajkowski posed in a swimsuit in her eighth month of pregnancy.
- the girl was born immediately with three teeth, which shocked the doctors.