Women perceive communication with a man a little differently. When a gentleman shows signs of attention, they regard it as the beginning of a relationship. But how can you be one hundred percent sure of the intentions of the man you like? You cannot change his thoughts, but you can at least know in advance where your communication is leading. It is not always possible to equate sympathy and a desire to build relationships. So pay attention to these signs, they will tell you that the man is not serious.
Here are signs that you shouldn't count on too much.
The man calls you to meet somehow spontaneously
At first it seems that he is such an unpredictable spontaneous person who has just been busy, and then he breaks down and craves to meet you. But it's worth considering. Most likely, a man just remembers you at the last moment, when all his plans have collapsed and he has nothing to do. If a man is serious, then he will clearly plan his time and fit you into his busy schedule in advance.
The man does not introduce you to his friends and family.
If a man is serious, then he will want to share his joy with loved ones. If he hides you, coming up with all sorts of excuses, like, until it's time, another time, someone is ill, then this is a bell that he does not take you seriously, and is not going to build relations.
The man does not remember things that are important to you.
This includes your dates together, your preferences, tastes, your stories. If all this somehow quickly and irrevocably flies out of his head, then you are not so important to him. A man who is serious will listen to you, remember what you say, will write down important dates and events.
A man doesn't ask you about the future.
This is not because he is so happy right now, and does not want to look far ahead, fearing that he may jinx what you already have. This is only because he does not care, and he does not see your joint future. He does not want you to hope for anything, and therefore is silent.
The man has recently come out of other relationships.
It is very foolish to hope for a serious relationship with a man who recently broke off his union with another woman. They don't cool down so quickly. At best, you will be a substitute for him, temporary, until he finds a better option for himself. In the worst case, he just uses you for the purpose of having fun, and also, in order to annoy the ex, well, or to amuse his ego, realizing that someone needs him.
A man is obsessed with his career
It is, of course, very good when a man works, because he wants to provide for himself, and then in the future and his family. But usually serious careerists are in no hurry to build serious relationships, well, as long as they have a very busy work schedule, a lot of plans and prospects, they are not going to change anything in life. So don't rush things.
A man only meets with you on his own schedule.
If a woman is needed and important to a man, then he will adjust to her schedule. He will find time for her. But to be with someone who is ready to date only when it is convenient for him is a huge mistake.
The man keeps his distance
If a man maintains an emotional distance, he is not interested in the relationship. Think, maybe it's better before it's too late to say “no” to yourself about him, otherwise you'll have to cry into your pillow because of unfulfilled hopes!
A man cannot name your relationship in any way.
If a man is afraid to call you his girlfriend, couple, partner, lover, then this says a lot. He's definitely not planning anything serious with you!
Learn to distinguish between being serious and custom!
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