There is an opinion that men are no longer interested in women with age. They are probably just getting old, giving up on themselves, finding other occupations and concerns. So I am interested in the question: when exactly does this happen? When does that age come when a man no longer strives to build relationships with women? And why is this happening anyway?
It probably sounds ridiculous that our dear men admire female beauty until a certain age, and then suddenly bam, and that's it. Is there really a period when men just don't need ladies? I believe that a person, regardless of gender, will always need relationships, communication of various kinds. And besides, the phrase “men's interest in women” can be interpreted in different ways.
Someone now thought about intimacy and relieving physical stress, while someone implies that if interest has disappeared, then the man no longer needs romance and communication. If we talk about the first case, then it is clear that it is a matter of health. But the second depends on the previous experience of the man.
Reluctance to build relationships due to bad experiences
I had one familiar man. And he was absolutely unlucky in love. He constantly met girls who broke his heart. And he was a pretty good person, attentive, kind, earned good money, without bad habits. That's just what they say, he was unlucky. It happened like this.
When he once again broke up with his girlfriend, his world just collapsed. He generally gave up on this business, and did not want to build love with anyone. He even communicate with women less. Imagine how he might have hated the entire female sex! He, of course, then after a considerable number of years found himself a lady of the heart, got married. And everything went very well for them. They live somewhere abroad in perfect harmony, raise children.
But there was a period in his life when the mere thought of a relationship in him aroused disgust. And it all progressed, he became unpleasant all aspects of life associated with women. He was then 100% sure that he would remain a bachelor until the end of his days, and this did not bother him at all. By the way, he was only 27 years old then! There is some manifestation of youthful maximalism in all its glory. But I am sure that such a state can occur at any age.
Yes, it is natural for a person to be disappointed in people, no one is immune from mistakes in life. Yes, and in yourself, too, you can be disappointed, think, since you are unlucky in love, it means that I am somehow not like that. But is it really necessary to inflate an elephant out of a fly like that? So exaggerate the problem? I think no. If you have been hurt by one person, you cannot hate all of humanity!
Loss of desire for sex
And here is the second part or the reason for our question. I honestly do not even know how men begin to experience this and when. Probably everyone has a certain age when the "system" stops working, gives, so to speak, a failure. Or maybe there is just a period when a man can do everything perfectly, but he does not want to. And I immediately remember Gena Bukin from "Happy Together". Remember how he ran from his beautiful red-haired wife? He found any excuse so as not to fulfill his conjugal duty. It's amazing. I always thought that such a situation is possible just in TV shows.
And I would be interested to know, but in fact it happens? Men who will reveal their secret? Why does this happen and at what age?
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