People sometimes behave worse than animals. I, for example, have never heard of dogs abandoning their puppies. And people in the maternity hospital refuse from their sweet pink-cheeked toddlers, and they can hand over a child to an orphanage when he has already grown up. After all, this is a betrayal! Especially at a more conscious age. For some, children are a burden, a cross, from which they want to get rid of them sooner. Well, okay, God is such a judge, but why then do parents suddenly remember their grown children, when they got on their feet and built a good fortune for themselves?
When Misha was 8 years old and he went to second grade, his parents suddenly decided to send him to an orphanage. Even in my head it does not fit how you can drive out your own eyes from your family! How can you go to such a betrayal? Misha's family did not have enough money, they literally survived, so they decided to get rid of their extra mouth in this way. And they left the younger child.
Misha was crying, but his mother promised him that as soon as the money got better, they would definitely take him back. Although the boy was offended, he realized that it was necessary. He loved his little sister very much, wanted all the best for her, and thought that if the family did not spend money on him, she would get more.
Years passed, but the parents did not take Misha away, he still lived in the orphanage. Of course, at first, his parents came once a month, brought him some toys, sweets, and then their visits became less and less frequent. When the boy grew up, he already realized that he would never be taken home, that he no longer had a home, and that he no longer had anything to count on. He understood everything correctly, over time, the parents completely stopped coming.
And Misha suddenly realized that he would have to steer himself in this life. He was a smart little boy, studied well, and decided to use his abilities to achieve something in life. He studied, read a lot, he was friends with the teachers and with the rest of the children in the orphanage.
And now he turned 18, it was time to leave his native orphanage, after 10 years. He entered a good university without any problems, he was even given a place in the hostel. And Mikhail devoted himself entirely to his studies. He understood that he had no one to rely on, and that he did not want to live in poverty, he had enough hungry childhood, and in the orphanage, although it was good for him, he still did not have everything that he wanted to kid.
A brilliantly graduated man from the university, he was accepted into a prosperous company for practice without any problems. There he showed himself so well that he was invited to a permanent job. It was foolish to lose such a valuable employee.
Mikhail's career ladder just flew up. By the age of 30, he was able to break out into the leaders. He was very hardworking, responsible, and also kind and delicate in communication. He was invited on television so that he could represent his company, and that's when something happened ...
Mikhail overpowered himself, and was able to forget his parents, just as they once did about him. Childhood memory, it is erased over time, and only the brightest moments remain, but he did not have those associated with his father and mother. In addition, Mikhail did not have any contacts with his parents, but they themselves suddenly remembered about him, and found him themselves.
The meeting with my family was tense. At first, the parents asked their son for forgiveness, then they began to talk about the unlucky daughter who went down the bad path, forced her parents into debt, and disappeared. Mom cried, lamented that he and his father had nothing to pay off these same debts, and there were also loans. Michael began to ask for help. They began to say that he was their bloodline, that they missed him, that they cried for 25 years, that money was not getting better, every time something happened again, and they could not take him to the family.
But the truth is that the parents weren't even going to take Misha out of the orphanage. At first they came to him to clear their conscience, then they began to be ashamed of him, well, or their deed. And now they are begging him and crying, as he then begged them many years ago. And you know, Misha did not take revenge on them, send them, turn away from them. He just gave them a lot of money with the agreement that they will disappear from his life forever.
Someday Misha will meet a woman, he will have a family, children. Only he knows for sure that his parents and sisters no longer exist for him, they are no longer his family, they are strangers to him.
He does not know if this is right or not, maybe he needed to understand and forgive his relatives, but so far his wounds have not healed. So far, he has not yet been able to recover from such a terrible betrayal, which helped him achieve a lot, but which ruined a fairly large part of his life ...
This is probably the worst thing when a mother abandons her child. But maybe Mikhail is still wrong, and he needed to be reunited with his parents. What do you think about that?
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