Do not think that a psychopath is a real killer maniac or a person who somehow inadequately expresses his emotions. Unfortunately, everything is much more complicated. Sometimes we cannot see such an individual among our environment.
For quite a long time, an emotional psychopath can seem to us to be a completely normal and even attractive person. And the problem is that many women are so blind that they live for years with men who are just emotional psychopaths.
Here are the signs of an emotional psychopath in your man.
He makes you feel guilty all the time.
The problem is that an emotional psychopath rarely says what he really thinks. For most of his existence and communication with you, he behaves nicely, courteous, kind, attentive. But there are outbursts of aggression and hatred towards you. Now, he just threatened you with physical violence, and after one moment he asks for your forgiveness and swears that he loves you, that what happened will never happen again. At the same time, he adds that if you did not take him out, you would not be so angry, aggressive, picky, emotional, yes, in principle, whatever, he would never raise his hand against you, and even an evil word in your the address did not say!
And it turns out that you begin to blame yourself, thinking that it is you who are not that kind, that you bring your peasant. In fact, he doesn't care about you, he doesn't feel guilty, unpredictable and emotionally unstable. Even a mere trifle can infuriate him in you, and it will go on increasing until you yourself see everything!
He manipulates you
From his side, manipulation proceeds as a distortion of information. He wants to make you doubt your own memory, actions, words, and ultimately, your sanity! This is a favorite tactic of people like him.
He blames you for absolutely everything.
Not only is he trying to blame you for his aggression towards you, but he constantly blames you for everything else! He will blame you for all his everyday problems. He does not succeed with work - you just think of him as a failure, do not believe in him, so he cannot succeed. Your mother is suspicious of him, it is you who are to blame, you may not tell her anything about your relationship, but from your displeased look, everything is perfectly clear. You have a bad marriage - it is your fault, because you are a worthless wife. He has problems with the law - it is again your fault, he was angry with you, so he broke. He changed - this is again your fault, you do not appreciate him, do not excite him, do not satisfy him. In general, you are flawed, but he is wonderful!
He humiliates you
He wants to control you, i.e. your sacrifice. He tries with all his might to control your actions, words, and even thoughts. He does not allow you to make a decision yourself, because as soon as you start thinking with your head, you will immediately understand that you deserve much more. He tells you that you are useless, worthless, ugly, useless, stupid, etc. It destroys your self-esteem, finally understand it!
It isolates you from people.
He is afraid that your friends or family members will turn you against him, so he simply isolates you from them. From the outside, his behavior is much more understandable for others, and they can do their best to save you from an emotional psychopath. He does not need this, he is trying to convince you that everyone around wants harm to your union. And you only need him!
He knows your pain points, and skillfully clicks on them
He uses what upsets you against you. He skillfully controls you, he knows what is painful for you, and does everything to make you as disassembled and broken as possible! This is all for you to be in his power!
He doesn't know how to lose
He never makes concessions, even if, after another insult in your direction or assault, he says that he is wrong, he does not consider himself defeated. He just knows when to back up a little so that you don't leave him anywhere.
Dear women, if all these signs are about your man, then you should know that he is an emotional psychopath, and he will never, you hear, never change! Don't trust him!
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