If you notice that you are always the initiator of correspondence with a man, there is reason to think.
We understand the most common reasons why a man replies to your messages, but he himself does not write first.
He doesn't like you that much
The man does not mind spending time with you if you appear on the horizon, maintaining a conversation, exchanging funny pictures, but in general he has more interesting things to do.
It's sad, but it's better to accept it and not look for a dirty trick and ulterior motives. And most - to move on.
He's not sure what you like that much
"The less we love a woman ..." and further in the classics.
Perhaps the man is afraid to surround you with his attention too much so that you do not lose interest in him.
He is busy
Each person really has blockages in business or just a desire to be away from the phone and social networks.Do not overwhelm him with messages, otherwise he will definitely never answer.
He doesn't want to rush things
Maybe he has a girlfriend or he just recently experienced a breakup or some kind of strong emotional shock (death of loved ones, divorce, depression).
In this case, the man does not want to be the first to take steps forward. Give him time and try to just talk about it on occasion.
You write to him very often
Analyze how many messages you send him per day?
Maybe there are too many of them: good morning wishes, cute messages and pictures throughout the day, questions about how he is doing and what he is doing, messages about everything that happened during the day.
Receiving all this, the man simply does not have time to get bored and does not see the point of writing first - you write to him constantly.
He doesn't want to develop a relationship
Let's put it another way: everything suits him and so. You are the first to write to him, communication and meetings continue - maybe he is not aware that he is doing something that does not suit you?
He doesn't want to impose
Maybe a man is shy in life and does not like to be the first to start a conversation, even in correspondence. A network of people who are embarrassed to call their parents - this also happens.
And if some girl once reproached him for being annoying, then now he certainly won't write to anyone first.And the eighth reason, comic:
Are you married
And he knows exactly where you are and what you are doing. In addition, you probably were the first to write him several reminders, tasks and a shopping list.
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