The first step to solving the problem of loneliness is to find out the reason why you are still alone.
Experience
You remember only the bad after your first marriage, the thought that you are better alone is literally eaten into your brain. You may not even notice how you push potential partners away.Expectations of the perfect
You made a mistake with the first man, so now you pass everyone else through sated, bombarding with checks.
You constantly think that this colleague is not suitable for you, and that man in the cafe is probably frivolous if he came up to meet you right away. All this turns into the expectation of an ideal person who does not exist in nature.
Dissatisfaction with yourself
Subconsciously or consciously, you blame yourself for the rupture, so you want to become better, more beautiful, more prosperous. In other words, change as much as possible before meeting a new person. But appearances won't change what kind of soul you have, right?
Priority career
After a failed marriage, many people decide it's time to pursue a career. And you sit in the office all week and take courses in the evenings. As a result, you don't even have a place to meet a partner.Fear of intimacy
You are still in pain after the breakup, you are afraid of emotional closeness, you are afraid that history will repeat itself. Fear that you will be good at first and then bad. Loneliness has already become your comfort zone.
Recall
- in the United States, a girl was born who is only two years younger than her mother.
- Ratajkowski posed in a swimsuit in her eighth month of pregnancy.
- the girl was born immediately with three teeth, which shocked the doctors.
