Children are alike, of course not. Everyone has their own character, likes and dislikes. But as the science of psychology maintains - a certain predictability is still there. Let us try to identify some types of young buyers.
Fans to drive. First of all, he rushes to the truck with the intention of a good ride on it. And if it is formed also in the form of a car, to pick up the baby from the store to purchase, it is not possible.
WHAT TO DO? Switch his attention. Kids aged 2-3 years, easily distracted and switch to something new and interesting. Encourage your child to an alternative that his interest and not contrary to your plans. Do not shout, do not fret and do not bribe the child's ice cream. So you risk blackmailer grow and manipulator. Promise the real thing, baby do not be fooled - undermine his faith in himself and in people in general.
KID-Daisy. This, on the contrary, it is difficult to seat in the carriage. He shouts, twists, rushes through the store.
WHAT TO DO?Try not to get annoyed, and used his boundless energy for peaceful purposes. Limit violent activities, entrusting him to lead a small children's trolley (there is one in almost all supermarkets) or carry a purchase, you need to keep two hands. You can also offer your child to help you find the right product. Do not shout, and negotiate. The child does not want to listen to and arranges a tantrum? Take him up and take out of the store. In turn you will likely miss unconditionally.
Ransomware. Most likely, once threw a tantrum in the store on the theme of "I want it", the child got from you desired. Now he uses this method to re-attain its goal.
WHAT TO DO? Tell me a little manipulator firm "no". Try to exercise restraint, do not get mad or yell. In this case, in any case, do not give in to blackmail, and do not go on about the crumbs, despite condemning the views of visitors to the store. Think about what is more important - silence on the trading floor or psychological well-being of your baby.
In some cases, you can try to negotiate, for example, "Now will you give me to make peace purchase, and then we'll go for a walk in the park on a swing, "or" You get what you want but then do not count on the...". Let the child himself will make a choice and then be responsible for its consequences.
