Sometimes we need to impress people, but, shackled by our own complexes, or, on the contrary, behaving too relaxed, we can ruin everything. Therefore, I decided to give you some tips that will help you charm anyone!
Carry a notepad to a meeting with people
In general, when you are in a meeting, try to use your phone less. Do not interrupt a conversation with a person if you need to answer an SMS, call, or urgently surf on social networks. Do you know what is best to do? Keep a pen and notebook in your hands as you talk, and take notes from time to time. This will seem to your interlocutor to be very respectful towards him. And he will also understand that he is very interesting to you.
Always remember the names of those people with whom you communicate
It is very unpleasant when you, having communicated with a person once, cannot remember his name the next time you meet him. This means that you are inattentive to him, he is not interesting to you. If you still forget the name of the interlocutor, then try to get out of the situation more tactfully. For example, you might ask, "What is your full / abbreviated name?" or "What should I call you?" As a last resort, use the help of mutual acquaintances by asking them what is the name of the person whose name just flew out of your head.
Create a pleasant about yourself not only the first impression, but also the last
As the saying goes: they are greeted by clothes, escorted by their minds. I would say a little differently. Try to make people at first sight appreciate you as an interesting person, and when you say goodbye to them, you should also leave a pleasant impression of yourself.
More interest in casual conversations
Not all people love only deep thoughts and difficult topics for reasoning. Sometimes little things are more attractive. Moreover, not everyone is able to immediately start a conversation "about high", many first need, so to speak, to tune in to the desired wave, and abstract topics will help here, as well as possible. Talk about the everyday and the simple!
Use duty phrases
You should always have the usual phrases in your head that you can say when there is an unexpected pause in the conversation. And they should also be on some abstract topics. For example, ask your interlocutor what he thinks about a particular profession. Let's say we can say that you are writing articles about the most popular professions, and you are interested in what profession your interlocutor would recommend to include in the list. You should always have a couple of such phrases in stock in order to always "stick" them into the conversation in time. People will start sharing their interests, experiences and sympathy with you.
Keep your mouth shut
You always need to feel when and what you should talk about, and when and what it is better to keep silent. Understand that people may forget that you told them this, but the feelings that your story aroused in them, they certainly will not forget. Sometimes, in order to impress a person, in order to interest and please him, you should close your mouth in time! Even if you are simply torn apart by the urge to say something, control yourself.
What methods and methods do you use to impress people, to please others and not spoil the opinion of yourself? Share actionable secrets in the comments!
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