How you can't talk to children during a quarrel: TOP-3 taboo

When quarreling, many parents often can not contain their anger and aggression. The consequences of this, unfortunately, can be very dire. To remedy this situation, forget about the following steps for quarrels with babies.

Call a child 

The fact is that at a young age, children still do not know how to stand up for themselves and do not know that they are, in fact, good. They need to be taught this. And this can only be done verbally. Therefore, further name-calling in their direction is fraught with dissonance in the baby's head. And then - low self-esteem.

Aggressive behavior 

The child should not feel aggression on your part. Otherwise, it is fraught with two further paths of development of events. He in a more adult age or will begin to copy your behavior. Or he will withdraw into himself and become patient. In two cases, this is extremely bad.

Pressure by authority 

Everyone here knows who you are and who he is. However, this does not give anyone the right to do anything towards another in order to show their authority. Here it is extremely important to press not by force, but by facts. Guilty - explain why it is not necessary to do this. Words are always a more effective way of conveying information.

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