Children often show unprecedented ingenuity in inventing stories.
Today we will tell you how easy it is and without wasting nerve cells to wean him from this harmful habits.
No scenes and scandals
They caught the kid lying - don't turn it into a big tragedy. Don't shout - you're not in the stadium. It is better to invite him to calmly confess everything by first mentioning your love.
Conversation with a teenager
If children immediately take note of your words about love, then teenagers are a separate conversation. Most likely they will not pay attention or refuse to hear your declarations of love. In this case, you should approach from the other side. Start the conversation like this: “Help me - I don't know what to do. I love you very much. However, now I feel that there is a mutual mistrust between us. Let's discuss this. It's too painful for me. What do you feel? " Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings and hear them back.Do not be offended by the child
The last thing you have to do is play manipulation with a person who cannot absolutely compete with you in them. When forming sincerity in a relationship, there should be no hint of manipulation. Then the child will learn not to be offended, but to negotiate, act, and do things.
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