Most moms and dads have already picked up the crumbs for their kindergarten and even served him all the necessary documents. But at the same doubts, but not too early to baby break away from home, and if he likes it in the garden, do not cease to overcome. According to psychologists, most importantly be adapted to the kindergarten gently and properly.
Does it even need a kindergarten? Or it may be better for the baby will stay at home with the nanny or grandmother? Of course, as always, the choice is yours. But keep in mind that today the kindergarten - this is the place where modern urban child can get full communion with constant peer group.
And such communication is indispensable for the personal development of the child. Here he learns to be a part of a group, friends, quarreled and reconciled. Scarce watching the behavior of other children and adults in a variety of situations in which he would never have seen the family. In addition, by observing and comparing, the child gets a lot of information about yourself, about what he is, what is different and similar to the other children.
At what age to give the child to the kindergarten? Psychologists believe the ideal age - 3 years, for a two-year baby is too attached to his mother and not fully aware of its separateness from it. That is why it is very difficult to tolerate separation from her. Although there are exceptions, there is a "social" children, who really like the communication in the team and they are happy to go to kindergarten, and at an earlier age.
But there are some kids who have difficulty in accessing the garden and later in life. In this case, put out to work and ask the teachers that they allowed you to stay a while with him in the band. The presence of mothers will gradually get used to the child in a new place, and it will no longer seem so hostile to him.
In order not to cause the child psychological trauma by sudden rupture of the parent-child relationship, it is expected that the adaptation to the kindergarten will take you about 3 weeks. Therefore, if you are going to get out of the decree on the job, when the child reaches the age of three, better to give it to the garden a little earlier, so that you have the opportunity to teach it to children's collective gradually.
Adaptation strategies for three weeks
1. Throughout the first week leave your child in the garden only for 2-3 hours - to play with the children, and if we agree, to eat.
2. In the second week, when the baby gets used a bit, ask him to sleep in the garden - with the condition that immediately after sleep you will take away it.
3. Strictly follow this child promise and do not be late! When the baby wakes up, you already have to wait for him in the group.
4. Try to get into the house you in the adaptation of the child time to Sadiq been no major changes. To get used to the new sphere of life in the garden, a child needs a home as a bulwark of constancy and stability.
5. Put on another trip, with the baby holidays and tours - new experiences, exciting his nervous system, his and so lacking.
6. After the baby slept in the garden, consider - it's done by winning and the way to adapt almost passed.
7. Gradually increase the time of the child's stay in the garden.
8.If possible, do not leave your child in kindergarten to 5-6 pm, try to pick up early.
9. The time will come (closer to the third week), when the baby is upset, that you came for him too early.
10. It feels almost like in a group home, he had many friends, feel relaxed and safe, trusted caregivers? Congratulations! It's time to leave it for a full day.
