Should the child be prohibited? TOP 5 prohibitions that ruin children's lives

In some cases children turn out to be so traumatized that they act out scenarios all their lives.

Don't live

According to psychologists, problems arise both for children whose mothers have thought about abortion for at least a week, and for those whose parents allowed themselves to speak out on this topic after the birth of the child. You cannot tell the child that he is causing problems, that it was better without him, and so on.

Then such guys - already being adults - try their whole life to prove to the world that they are worthy of life.

Do not

I did it badly, I didn't do it too badly. The child grows up with the feeling that he simply cannot do the right thing.

Over time, an attitude is formed - nothing will work. No matter what he does, success will still not be achieved.

Don't reach / try

Parents should not take on too much responsibility by repeating to the child that it is too early for him, that this is not his business. With the suppression of every childish impulse, faith in oneself decreases. Victims of such prohibitions often face the fact that they become physically ill on the eve of an important business.

Don't be yourself

It happens that the parents wanted a girl, but a boy was born. Or hereditary professors had a child who fell in love with football since childhood.

And the old (like the world) story begins: could you meet our expectations, dear child, and not be yourself?

Many children succumb, cease to be individuals and become the mirror of their parents.

Don't be important

Psychologists remind you to listen to your child. If parents constantly brush him off because of business, fatigue - the reason is not so important - then over time the child will be convinced that he, his problems and concerns are not worth attention.

Over time, in the life of such a person, the interests of others will come first, and his own will dangle somewhere at the bottom.

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