Psychologists advise to listen to the child himself so as not to miss a favorable moment.
As you know, each child develops individually, someone starts talk before, someone crawls for a long time before standing on their feet. Parents should treat such developmental features with understanding (and without worries).
The situation is similar with the education of independence.
The child should be taught to make decisions after the child himself takes the initiative.
Experts believe that the best moment for raising independence in a child is the age of 3 years.
By this time, most of the kids already want to do some daily activities themselves.
Parents must allow this. When a child has determination, support him, praise him, this will not only instill independence and responsibility, but also show the child that all his actions have value.The mistake is that the parents lack patience. They see that the child has been tying his shoelaces for too long and seize the initiative. They say you are too slow. Forget about these phrases, help only if the child asked you to. Don't make your child feel inferior with remarks.
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