Each mother tries to do what is best for her child. And how does it actually turn out?
Dictator
Everything is pretty obvious here. First, the dictator mother (and not all of them admit it to themselves) decides herself who suits her son and who does not, then complains that her son is so "weak in character" (as if someone gave him the opportunity to show and educate character).
If the son does marry, the mother's intervention does not end there, and she seeks to control the newly created family. And a man, not used to contradicting his mother, simply gives up under her onslaught.
Of course, few wife will tolerate all this, and the marriage will quickly burst at the seams.
Loner
No matter how hard single mothers try to give their sons a versatile upbringing, there must be a male example in a boy's life. Even if not a father, but another close relative.
Otherwise, he has nowhere to take an example to follow, how to deal with women, how to talk, give gifts, how to resolve conflicts, etc.Growing up in an incomplete family, a boy will most likely look for a new "mother" in his chosen one, because he is used only to such a distribution of male and female roles in the family.
Raised a pet
Such mothers raise their sons in an atmosphere of permissiveness. Accordingly, the grown boy does not know the boundaries and rules in building relationships either.
He was always allowed to do everything, got away with it, he was praised and extolled - and then suddenly some "outsider" woman tries to drive him into her own framework of ideas about relationships and responsibility. It wasn't like that.Rather, the chosen one will have to play the role of a servant, and not a full-fledged partner: clean, wash, cook, serve comprehensively and at the same time praise and admire.
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