Raising children is a very responsible and delicate business. After all, one wrong direction vector - and you can ruin the future of your child.
Do not advise your child to restrain himself.
Very often we see situations when parents advise the child to ignore ridicule in his direction. The tactics are clear: patience and work will grind everything. But in this way you can raise a real terpily from a child, who will take the position of a victim in adulthood. To prevent this from happening, be sure to advise him to defend his honor. Not with fists - with words. Verbal defense is always more effective than force defense.
Don't criticize the child
Criticism can be divided into healthy and unhealthy. And if you even make a remark on business, speak it in a softer form so that the child does not withdraw into himself. But criticism against the background of comparison with other children - a common mistake of many parents - is fraught not only with a decrease in self-esteem, but also with large complexes that the child will cultivate in himself. In the future, an adult will not be able to resist criticism of the same adult children, because he has a model of behavior in childhood - to be silent and accept.
Do not threaten
As a child, the most common threat to every child was a belt. But this approach to raising a baby will not bring you any positive results. You would rather intimidate him than teach him to behave. So that such situations do not happen to you, be sure to first understand why he is playing naughty and explain in simple language, in a calm manner, that you absolutely do not like it. The belt is clearly superfluous.
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