Person expresses his emotions with tears. And that makes it different from other living beings on the planet. Sadness, pain, fear, frustration, anger, resentment, joy - not a complete list of feelings that can be expressed by crying.
Because babies cry more often than adults. With the development of emotional intelligence in the child expands the range of reaction behavior, but crying is a universal means of expression of feelings.
With the help of crying children interact with the world
Crying - it's a way of communicating with the world of the baby, because otherwise draw attention to himself, he is not yet able. Very often parents, knowing that the child's mind is very vulnerable, try to make the baby did not cry and did not get upset.
Parents are afraid to give children a chance to cry because:
- ashamed that other people hear
- They do not want to seem "bad" mom and dad
- They want to be known as a model family
Why crying children useful for the nervous system / pixabay.com
New reasons for tears
Growing up, the child learns in a different way to express their desires and requests, and, seemingly, tears should be less, but no: in baby, new needs, adding the reason for tears: he urgently needed an alien toy, granny glasses, or the key to the box.
At the age of one year to three years, the child is facing with the first "no" and "no". And, of course, crying, because that's what it sought desired. Crumbs will take some time to learn to live with increasing restrictions.
It is important to clearly set boundaries, without causing the baby to tears. If he knows that my mother's phone can not be taken, then there is no reason to cry, and to distract the child from the gadget, thereby causing unnecessary tears.
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