TOP 3 types of toxic parents: check if you are one of them

But is it really so? Psychologists distinguish three psychotypes of toxic parents, which unconsciously poison the life of the baby from day to day. Do you want to know if you are among them? Then be sure to read this material.

Too good parents 

Usually, a similar psychotype of parents implies the stimulation of feelings of guilt in the baby. They create the image of too good parents who do everything right and give the child only the best, and he, such a scoundrel, only enjoys all the benefits. Stop. Thus, you develop in the child a sense of guilt, which in the future will concern not only your family relationships, but also many areas of his life in general. Moreover, one should not use insults as a supposedly forced measure. Accept that not only your child is imperfect, but you, too, make many mistakes. At the very least, doing this to him.

Overly controlling parents 

Of course, you shouldn't let your children get out of control. But he must also be soft, not aggressive. Especially when it comes to a teenager. Accept that they will soon start living on their own. And it depends only on you whether they will let their parents into it or not. In most cases, parental control is primarily about selfishness. If at the same time you manipulate the feelings of the child, you can safely rank yourself among the "toxic" parents. Blackmail cannot always work. Sooner or later, the child's psyche will not withstand such pressure and will show what it is capable of. By the way, the consequences of such upbringing in the future may come back to haunt loneliness for your already adult child. He simply will not be able to make decisions on his own. Such people usually have difficulties in creating their own family.

Humiliating parents 

Humiliation is not a way to motivate. Many parents mistakenly believe that insults towards a child will only spur him to correct them as soon as possible. In fact, children turn on their defense mechanisms. They can be different for everyone. For example, those who are more calm and quiet tend to withdraw even more into themselves, leaving for another world. This is fraught with problems with communication in society. For more active toddlers, insult can trigger an outpouring of uncontrollable aggression. If you want to reproach your child for something, use strong reasoning.

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