On April 6, STB will air the premiere of the new psychological reality "Supermama", hosted by the legendary expert Dmitry Karpachev.
The programs will raise all possible issues of parenting, which will be considered in detail by the presenter. For example, why is your child behaves badly.
For most parents, bad behavior is behavior that they don't like. For example, some parents do not like it when their child moves very actively and noisily in space.
But why should a child stop doing what he likes and brings joy just because someone does not like it? Even if this someone is his parent.
Psychologist and presenter Dmitry Karpachev
Have you ever wondered how much the same ideas about what is good and what is bad for you and your child coincide? There is a very simple way to check. The next time he cheats again, before scolding him, just ask if he knew he was doing wrong.
Sometimes our ideas about the bad simply do not coincide, and the child does not understand the reason for which he is being punished. In such a situation, your punishment will lead nowhere, and you will only ruin the relationship. That is why in many countries children are not punished at all until a certain age. Moreover, until the age of two, many of them still do not even know how to speak, and the development of speech is directly related to the ability to understand and analyze! If you don't agree with your child about the norms of good and bad in advance, you will never achieve the desired rapport.
I advise, if your baby is already old enough to be aware of his actions, work out a vault with him certain criteria and rules that will serve as a guide for him in different life situations. Rules and frameworks in a child's life must be mandatory!
By the way, if your child behaves, as you think, badly, do not try to yell at him. Is it possible in principle to shout at children? They are shouted at only because they know they can get away with it. I think that raising your voice to someone who cannot answer you is despicable.
Watch the Supermama project from Monday to Thursday at 18:00 on STB.
