You are sure that you are raising children correctly and your opinion is the truth of all truths. You may be wrong.
The child must follow your instructions.
Accept: you can be wrong too. And what is good in your understanding is not always so in the child's understanding model. You can also blame the child for obeying your instructions and not being able to cope with them. Indeed, in case of failure, the performer is always to blame.
Don't give freedom
In adulthood, the desire to live separately is quite adequate. After all, they are not an addition to you, but an individuality. In fact, you just want the adult child to stay close, but be quiet and submissive.Pressure on appearance
At a young age, children are most sensitive to any criticism addressed to them. Your comic "you look like a cow in these leggings" after a couple of years, in adolescence, can develop into quite significant complexes regarding appearance. And in an adult - to turn into a global rejection of your body.
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