The real story of my neighbor, everything is happening before our eyes and the eyes of other neighbors. Lena and Katya are two sisters. Their mother raised them alone. Katyusha graduated from a good institute and found a good job with a high salary. Lena is 2 years older than her sister, but she left school after the 9th grade, finished some courses, and jumped out to get married. One by one, she gave birth to children. But there is no family idyll in that family, and there were rumors that Lena and her husband would soon divorce.
- Katya, Lena called, her husband has some problems at work, his salary was delayed. We need help, - Svetlana Nikolaevna sighed.
- Mom, well, of course, we will help, we will not leave them hungry. Only I doubt that Dima has any problems with work there, something else here! - Katya said upset.
Svetlana Nikolaevna - Katya and Lena's mother is already a pensioner, but she also has to work, because she needs to help her eldest daughter and grandchildren. Katya also spends a good part of her salary on her sister and nephews, and does not understand Lena at all. The couple had no money when they were going to give birth to their first child, and when the situation stabilized a little after giving birth, Lena became pregnant again.
Lena's and Dima's apartment is rented on the outskirts of the city. The man works as a sales manager, so his salary is jumping, but most often the minimum, because Dima is not particularly trying to earn more. They live on his penny, child allowances and help from Svetlana Nikolaevna and Katya. The eldest daughter of the couple is 7 years old, the youngest son is one year old. Recently, Dima's mother died, left him an inheritance. Although she is one-room, she does not have to pay for rent. Lena deliberately went to the birth of her second child in order to receive maternity capital from the state. So Lena wanted to improve her living conditions. Everyone was silent, only Katya did not calm down:
- Why give birth to children like this? What nonsense! Is it possible to solve such problems by having a child? Len, you cannot lift one, but here the second. How many diapers does he need, a bed, a high chair, clothes!
Lena did not listen to anyone, and simply gave birth to a son, while accusing her relatives of heartlessness. When it came to buying a kopeck piece, Dima suddenly decided to open his own business. And, of course, Lena supported him. The case went bankrupt, Dima got into debt, he was even put on the counter. In short, the man barely got out of it all. But the idea to buy a bigger house remained. Then the couple decided to take a mortgage. Svetlana Nikolaevna dissuaded her daughter from such an act, but no one listened to her either. And for the next three years, she heard that all the money was spent on paying the mortgage, and the children were starving.
Everyone survived this thanks to Svetlana Nikolaevna and Katya. Lena even went to work, like their life got better, but, as it turned out, not for long. Dima began to stay late at work, worked a lot and for a long time, but the salary did not increase, and the bonus was not given. Svetlana Nikolaevna and Katya began to assume that the man had another. And Lena did not even expect anything, she just saw her husband on the street with a spectacular young lady. Having tried to create a scandal, Lena was quickly put in place. Dima began to threaten her, they say, if he starts talking to everyone about it, he will divorce her. Lena said nothing, and decided to keep her husband at all costs. And, of course, she chose her usual way - pregnancy.
“I'm waiting for the third,” the woman said proudly to her sister and mother when she was visiting them.
- Why are you completely crazy, he is not today, so tomorrow he will leave you, - Katya could not resist.
- Yes, no, Dima won't leave us now. And I love him. You will see, everything will be fine!
Lena's plan did not work. When Dima found out that his wife was pregnant, he simply filed for divorce, leaving the apartment for the family. Pays penny alimony. Lena cries on her mother's chest so that she can sit with her grandchildren, and the woman will go to work.
Svetlana Nikolaevna is firm in her decision:
- I'm sorry for the grandchildren, but isn't it all your fault? You are 35 years old, and you still talk like a stupid girl. What kind of a fool do you have to be to get pregnant so that the man doesn't leave? I won't sit with anyone, okay?
Still, Lena decided to terminate the pregnancy, after two weeks of tears and curses against her sister and mother. Now she seems to be holding her head. I went to work, the youngest is in kindergarten, the older one goes to school. But for some reason it seems to me that this nonsense cannot be knocked out of a person. Now he will meet some man, and quickly get pregnant from him.
What do you think about this story? What do you think about Lena, about Svetlana Nikolaevna's firm decision and Dima's act? Maybe Lena's relatives are wrong, and it was necessary to give birth to a third?
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