Writer, father and husband Toby Hazlewood shared communication experiences with her daughters from a previous marriage. According to him, parents should follow the rules 7.
1. Kids can adapt to changes
Surprisingly, children are much more flexible than their parents. They are hardy, but also sensitive. Parents should not move away from the children, thinking that they are offended or angry at adults. Divorce does not affect the children, if Mom and Dad will show that they, as before, it is important what is happening in the lives of children. All will be well, if you put their interests ahead of their own.2. But they should not rush with this ...
Children will get used to the new conditions of life as long as necessary, and parents better not to interfere.
Do not show too much enthusiasm or new toys, no trip to the amusement park will not allow the child to get used quickly.
3. Parents should prepare
Occasionally parents divorced people think that they will now have to be for the child mother and father at the same time (we are talking about parents, children remain with that). Mom will have to act as protector of children, and Dad can not get away from buying pantyhose for her daughter, and even talking about the critical days. Who, if not you?
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4. Respect for mom / dad
Children badly hurt if the real hatred erupts between parents. Well, anything can happen! If you and your husband can not be in the same room for longer than 5 minutes, so as not to swear, arrange for at least the children to behave as if everything is normal. And do not use the children as a means of manipulation.5. Be happy!
It's not easy, but this is what your kids want most.
6. Stay on the side of the child
A new partner or a new family should not let your kids against offensive comments, we should not allow them to interfere in the education persistently daughter or son. You should always take the side of children.
7. Do not relax!
Education - a minefield, where you at every step can wait for a surprise. Just when you thought that the crisis behind as he crawls up adolescence with tantrums, problems and misunderstandings.It is difficult to prepare for this, but relax just not worth it!
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