It's no secret that the most impressionable, superstitious and emotional people - a pregnant woman. But the second pregnancy is still calm, because you have once passed this way!
You had studied dozens of books that have become almost a professor on all issues related to children. In the second and subsequent pregnancies you have virtually no fears and doubts.
This is the time when the expectant mother takes pleasure and literally enjoyed and enjoys his position. She was not worried about her friends advice, family conversations and recommendations of the older generation. She has her own experience. Experience - the main thing is your weapon. All sorts of horror stories scare you no longer!
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Second pregnancy is a risk
The first and second pregnancies are different, if only because the children were conceived at different times and often in different seasons. For example, the first pregnancy was in the cold season, when you have a long dress, leaving the house. And the second - in the warmer months when you only have a wide and comfortable sandals sundress. Or vice versa.
But the main difference is that the woman has different children. Even twins differ in character. What can we say about the rest of the kids. They are different from the start, and even their behavior in the tummy will be very different.
Future mom knows that the quieter she will relate to what is happening around, the more comfortable it will be to the kid. The more healthy mentally and physiologically he grows up. Mommy does not waste time, nerves and his energy on counting calories and fashionable trends in nutrition. She knows that it is better sometimes indulge in a light dessert and get positive emotions. Mom happy? It is much more important for the crumbs, than anything else.
The time interval between pregnancies: how many years?
1-2 YEARS The body has not recovered to the end after the first pregnancy, and the baby has not yet become independent. When the second pregnancy mom have to wear the older child in her arms, down to the first floor of the wheelchair, lean and do other things that are not recommended in its present position.
4-5 years The optimum period for the second pregnancy. The body is fully recovered, but has not "forgotten" characteristics of gestation and birth. The child has grown up and can serve themselves.
MORE THAN 10 YEARS The body almost forgot everything and perceives pregnancy as the first.
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So why is it necessary to give birth to a second child?
- You have learned to control their emotions, resist the mood swings and not go to extremes.
- Do not start crying at the mouth of the gynecologist: "Let's put you to save." Perceive the proposal as a ticket to the resort, where you will have the opportunity to take a break from household chores and concentrate on her pregnancy.
- No matter how the pregnancy proceeded for the first time. Now you are sure that in each trimester will be easier than in the corresponding period of the first pregnancy. And so it happens.
- It's much easier, calmer. You have seen from personal experience that the pregnancy does not last forever and ends with birth.
- Labor pain is not memorized. Now you know it. Contractions during the first pregnancy in 90% of cases from different sensations in the second and third time.
- The first pregnancy, a woman thinks of himself, in the second pregnancy, she thinks more about the crumbs and selects the comfort (shoes, clothing, bed).
- Second pregnancy proceeds easier, usually because the body "remembers" this period and quickly rebuilt in gestation mode. This rule does not apply if the difference between the first and second pregnancy is 10 years or more.
- During her second pregnancy tummy will already be noticeable at the 12th week. This is due to the fact that the uterus after the first birth is not reduced to its original size, and quickly adapts to the fetus. The load on the lumbar spine and legs will be stronger. In the third trimester wear a bandage, do exercises for the back.
- The abdomen is lowered lower than the first child. Bundles after birth are not as flexible. Increasing pressure on the bladder.
- The first tremors kid experienced mom will never be confused with anything. Therefore, the first stirring of you feel before the first pregnancy.
- The cervix of women giving birth is more elastic in the fight again Rodia last less.
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