What do you see when you imagine an ordinary average Russian woman?
What do you mean by female responsibilities?
I see a scowling woman in a washed apron standing at the stove preparing food. Children and pets get in the way under her feet, asking for food / drink / sleep / play and so on ...
She puts food on the plates with quick movements, helps the youngest to eat and goes to collect dirty things around the apartment to stuff them into the typewriter.
At this time, the children had already eaten and smashed the kitchen floor. Animals too. The woman sighs heavily and removes all this disgrace without saying a word. Then she will do the dishes and put the children down.
During the children's daytime sleep, the woman either cooks lunch / dinner, or strokes, or cleans up. There are always activities.
The children have woken up and it's time to feed them again. And again the same scheme, help the youngest to eat, clean, wash. And so all day, all week, month, year, three years. Groundhog day.
No rest, no weekends, and no time to spare.
And if it does appear, then it happens in fits and starts and with a sense of guilt, what is it, she sits at home on maternity leave, resting. And then he allows himself too much, while the husband at work "relishes".
Pregnancy, childbirth and maternity leave are the biggest unpaid jobs. But this job does not involve days off and vacations.
But there are reproaches from others:
"Well, you are sitting at home, what are you getting tired of?"
So, when I imagine this picture, I feel sad. After all, a woman is the heart of the house, this is the love that she shares with her children and her husband. And when she herself lacks this love, what kind of return can we talk about.
If men were a little more attentive to their women, there would be more happiness, light and love in their homes.
Of course, we all understand that life is not a continuous holiday. And no one cancels responsibility to the family, women's responsibilities and so on.
But, it seems to me that after all, women were created to:
- Loved
- Respected
- Spoiled
- Satisfied
- Defended
- Protected
This does not mean that they should be lazy, grumpy, capricious, and wait for everything to be done for them.
Just remember to take care of those who care about your comfort. Who gives you love, creates comfort and satisfies your needs and the needs of your children.
No one will take better care of you than a loving woman.
But! A woman also needs care so that she does not become one of the grumpy and dissatisfied women who do not take care of themselves and do not want to change anything.
