Evolution has made of some men creatures who can powder a woman's brains for years and get from her everything he needs.
And women, due to their natural sacrifice and inclination to care, waste years on scoundrels who do not plan to change anything in their lives.
They just learned to speak beautifully, promise a lot and come out dry.
Some especially gifted young people, in such relationships, manage to have a child, or even several, and therefore years after the words - "it was all not serious, I did not promise you anything", leave into the fog. Or live in two families.
Men, due to the fact that their emotional background is reduced, are easier to deal with such situations, for a woman it is more difficult to hide such a relationship. There are certainly ladies with iron nerves and a cold heart, but there are still more men like that.
It's easier for them to hide something, to evade and feel calm.
So, how can you still recognize a man who is simply a loser, who uses you and you spend time with him?
Below is a list of typical git behavior!
1. He is helpful, polite and knows how to melt your heart.
Of course, if a man is like that, this does not mean that he is a villain, but it is worth taking a closer look at him. Why is he so affectionate and attentive? What does he want? Maybe he is pursuing some kind of selfish goal?
The main thing is to correctly ask leading questions and not be afraid to frighten off a potential groom. The one who is really interested in you, and the one who is honest with you, and pursues good goals, will answer honestly and to the point.
Key questions: What are your plans for the future? Where and who do you work? Where and with whom do you live? Are you married? Do you have children?
Perhaps the answers to these questions will save you a couple of decades of life.
2. He speaks a lot and beautifully
And you see very few cases. But, he knows how to find an excuse that you accept and understand. He easily gets out of seemingly impossible situations and deftly answers all your compromising questions.
Of course, you will intuitively feel that something is wrong. But his charm and charisma (without her, this type of men, alas, would not have survived and would not have continued their family) will make you believe him.
This can take a very long time. Because the more time you trust him, solve his problems and spend your time and nerves on him, the more sorry you will be to part with him.
Be carefull! Look at the deeds and actions of men.
3. Tell me who is your friend
His friends are mostly divorced, unemployed and healthy men sitting around their wives (sometimes mothers or grandmothers).
And he doesn't think it's bad. For him, these are people who are in a difficult financial situation. As a rule, this situation for these comrades lasts for years and they do not plan to change anything. And their attempts to do something is most likely a way to show that he was trying to be left behind!
Their conversations boil down to the commercialism of women and the fact that a lot is required of men in our time. And you so want to be "not like all these extortionists." And such a man just needs that. Your guilt will play into his hands.
In general, it is very easy to recognize such men. But women sometimes turn a blind eye to all the signals and alarm bells. They are in love and charmed.
But sooner or later the spell will subside and you will see the real face of this person. But, as a rule, this happens too late, when a lot of time has passed and you are in a desperate situation.
Take care of yourself and don't let such men take years of your life!
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