Pay enough attention to the boy
Moms, especially bringing up children alone, are not enough to be present in a child's life. Someone a lot of work, someone creates a new family. As a result, the boy who will grow into a lack of maternal care, it will seek to compensate for longer in their own ways. Wife he would choose her for this principle to replace the mother: cook, clean, take care - and in any case did not have their own interests, hobbies, careers. All her attention must be directed to him. It is worth noting that this is not a healthy relationship in the couple - and they can end up in divorce when she finally realizes that she was tired of this servility and restrictions.
The boy's mother, who takes care of his composure and prosperous future, should pay enough attention and not giperopekat, give freedom.
Do not play the role of victim and sufferer
It is difficult to imagine that from a boy to grow an adequate husband and father, if his whole life, he watches as his mother was unhappy. If your life is really full of difficulties - in your power to change it. But the boy did not have many years to listen to the lamentations of your sleepless nights as you experience every his illness, how hard it was given to you to send him to kindergarten and school, what your life miserable, and work heavy. What do you want to achieve, constantly reminding about this child?The result in the end there may be two: either your son will not create his own family (it is necessary to take care unhappy mother, why does he own children, if so much suffering from them), or find a same wife of the victim. And will "save" it, and then go looking for the next contender for "salvation."
Adapt to the life of the boy, learn to care for themselves
It is high time to reject the stereotype that only girls need to learn to sew, cook, wash and do other things around the house. Self-help skills necessary to vaccinate a child, regardless of gender. If the only thing that can be prepared to eat a man - a ravioli bought in the store, it is not fun, and very sad. Whether he will lead the family, or will he live - he has to be able to take care of themselves. Make a list of needed products, plan purchases, prepare simple meals, wash things by hand (and of course, use household appliances) do the cleaning, etc. Many men can not even turn on the washing machine, sew a button and elementary cook porridge, we would like to imagine this "self" husband?Someone might say that the boy is more important to be able to fix the tap or nailed. There is no doubt - if you can teach it to his son, the new skills he did not interfere. But how often the crane breaks down in the house? And how often do you need to cook your own meals, clean the house and wash? Serve yourself at home - this is a necessary skill to not look for a "servant-wife," and really find a decent mate.
It is also imperative to vaccinate boy cleanliness: explain how often should I change clothes, socks, underwear, how to care for clean the face and body, it is important to use an antiperspirant, regularly wash your hair, follow the breath of freshness and cleanliness nails. As long as your thief is not 10 years old - it's not very important, but as a teenager to watch itself should become a habit.
Often praise his son, allow emote
Men more than women need compliments - it's a fact. Praise motivates them to new achievements. You do not razbaluete boy, if you appreciate his efforts and skills.Also, mothers should forget the phrase "men do not cry." Men, like women, it is important to have a way to splash out emotions, to express sorrow, tears for that - the first and easiest way. If the boy wants to cry - let's crying. It says nothing about its pros and cons really.
Male example
If the sight of the boy is not a good example of his father, the mother's task - to find another role model. This may be one of the male relatives, a friend of yours, who communicates with the child, etc. With all affection a son to his mother, there are moments when you need to talk "like a man", to give an alternative view, men's advice. It is important that the boy was to turn to the right time.
Send the boy to dance
You may think that the boy is more important to be able to protect themselves, to go to martial arts, but one does not interfere. But the dance will give your son an excellent posture and ability to hold and to manifest itself, a good self-esteem, self-confidence. And the boy who knows how good move and dance, never be without women's attention.
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