Mum of twins or fraternal twins: how to do everything

The appearance of twins or fraternal twins in the family - a whole range of maternal feelings and the newly-acquired conditions that occur with the birth of a baby, only multiplied by two. Twice, joy, happiness, tenderness and love. However, the double "bonus" become and worries associated with caring for the little ones.

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Caring for two newborns immediately toddler - a serious test for the young parents, especially mothers. And the main trick is not so much in the fact that to find enough time and attention to each beloved child, much in the way both to solve urgent problems in the size of a double. After all, children are in most cases have a mode for two. Feed, rock to sleep, to redeem, to change, to gather on the street... It can confound and weaken any young mother.

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To follow only three rules that can create real miracles:

1. Do not be afraid to change some habits and learn to say "no" sometimes the closest people for what would be more time given to kids and myself.
2. Do not forget that you - the most wonderful, skilful and wise mother. And you have the right not to normal human feelings - anger, apathy, you are entitled to get tired or something - then forget it.
3. Do not blame yourself in little ways - extra minute of rest you need like anyone else.

Feeding

Kids want to eat at the same time, as a young mother can hardly imagine how you can keep tots around the chest, yeah yet at the same time relax and enjoy the process, because The suggested consultants for breastfeeding feeding.

Experts recommend the use of specially designed items for the feeding of two children, and experienced parents support this method in practice, saying that hard really nothing.

1. So, for simultaneous breastfeeding mom sits down, puts a pillow on his lap, and her one child, which offers breast. At the same time in the "out of hand" as a second toddler lying on the pillow starts the meal. This position is suitable for quiet or very young children when they are not so actively kicking legs.

Change this position can be moving the first child in the same position 'of the - by the arms. " It turns out that you're sitting, and children lying on the high pillows, feeding from the side and diagonally across from you. The position does not require you much effort, does not strain your back and arms.

2. There is also one more, but less convenient and common position of breastfeeding when mom leans over a high changing table and offer both breasts while standing kiddies. For the convenience of doubtful position lies an important point - in the postpartum period or - due to complications in some women is difficult to sit on a soft surface. Then the position for feeding the "standing" falls by the way.

3. Sometimes, however, so that the toddler has a different mode, and the feeding takes place alternately every child. On the one hand comfortably, on the other hand it makes to keep in mind who, when and how to eat. Although experts advise to bring children to a single regime for them and your convenience, if it is not yet possible, keep a record.

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Notes in a notebook or on the board of the kids that ate from a chest. So, you can optimally feed their children, offering the most fat and delicious milk, giving the breast to rest and recover.

If babies from birth to "bottles", then again, it is better to feed them together. Place the tots in the crib or placed side by side with them on your bed so that you would be comfortable to hold and easy bottle at this moment to chat with the kids. With Power Babes Get a pleasant feeling and experiencing strong positive emotions, calming and evolving. Give them this happiness - Connect with your beloved and affectionate mother.

Spoons, plates and glasses

Toddler copy each other, are analyzed at an affordable level someone else's behavior, together make the first discoveries... and collective meal is not only a meal, but an interesting and educational game.

1. Psychologists advise to put the kids each in his chair and put close to each other, preferably in front.
2. Plates, colorful cups, spoons and other utensils should be offered in abundance both kids.
3. Do not seek to give their children all the same, but if a child reach for a spoon brother / sister, it is better to immediately offer the same.
4. Seeing how one eats, the other is also likely to begin with an appetite to eat. A supplementation tots from a spoon can always offering food at a time and luring the attention of babies cheerful rhyme or fairy tale.

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Bathing

If near you no assistants or conditions do not allow to bathe two babies at once, it is better to do it quickly and take turns.

1. One - playing / sleeping, the other - splashing in the bathtub. And vice versa.
2. As there is a recommendation to abandon the standard of evening water treatment. Even though their favor - relaxation and preparation for the night's sleep.
3. Try separated in time the kids swimming. For example, one bathe in the afternoon, the other - in the evening. Such hygienic approach is well suited for children with various requests and mode.
4. Another option might be more appropriate - a complete bathing kids take turns every other day. So there is an opportunity to give full time to each chubby little boy and give napleskatsya plenty.
5. However, most modern professionals still inclined to believe that we should not neglect the daily bath, which is better to do at this time of night. They are well trained and the nervous system in children form the orientation in time.
6. A possible to bathe of two kids in the same bath. Perhaps the answer to this question will only practice. There are kids who are quite a relaxed take water treatments in the company's brother or sister, but there are some small "Vertunov", which does not sit still, and seconds, and parents, respectively, are not digress.
7. If the kids comfortable in a large tub, by the way, you can use special chairs for swimming on suckers, why would not they swim together. And you call yourself to help another pair of hands and a pair of eyes for fidelity.

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Sleep

Full moon, weather changes, teeth, "bellies", the guests - any reason may complicate sleep children. In addition to the pair of tots always a chance that one will wake the other. And these fears are perhaps the most unfounded.

1. Feel free to connect close to the night "vigil". Bring a toddler on feeding mom and dad can, as well as mother feeds, Dad shakes his second, protecting its fragile dream. In short, to find the best options for themselves the power of each family together.

2. It is important to organize a comfortable bed. Some experts do not recommend to separate children on the bed, when he and the first minute of intrauterine life together. You just need to choose a more spacious models of beds, such as oval.

If malyshnya clearly interfere with each other to dream, better stock up two beds. But what exactly is not necessary to do is to leave one of the twins to bed, and the other put with them. Sleeping together - this is a special psychologically productive environment for the child, because to deprive it of the second is not worth it. To solve this problem, perhaps, only your spouse with a willingness to take both children to her under the flank.

3. Choosing children's mattress, make sure that he was right orthopedic, rigid and smooth.

4. Pillow early just interfere with sleep, as well as extra clothes.

5. Well-ventilated room, with the optimal temperature, the attention (!), 18 degrees and sufficient humidity create the most comfortable environment for a good night's sleep.

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Yield street

Correct use "free" time. As part of the walk we are talking about the fact that everything you need to prepare well in advance, while the kids are asleep.

1. Lay out clothes in a prominent place, put in the stroller all take with you. Now, when the time comes to put tots, you do not have to waste time on unnecessary running around.
2. Dress your baby in the first one all but warm clothing, then the second.
3. Return to the initial and final "Insulate" of the first crumb, repeating the same with the second.
4. Modern overalls or envelopes are very comfortable and do not require a lot of time dressing.
5. Double stroller - your vehicle's number one in the near future. It is better to choose a model where kids are next to each other, but separate "cells".
6. Do not forget to open the windows and ventilate the room well, as long as you walk.

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