Before something new comes into your life, you must first say goodbye to the old. But, unfortunately, not everyone is able to take it like this and change their life, and leave the old behind them. As a result of this, we ourselves are poisoning our lives, and we cannot move forward further. But we must remember that life is changing, and we are changing, and the world around us is also changing!
Here are the things you should get rid of because they poison your life and steal your happiness.
The need to prove yourself right
Sometimes people, even under the threat of breaking off relations, creating stress and causing pain, in no case want to accept someone else's point of view, proving their innocence with foaming at the mouth. It's not worth it.
Control
There are things in life that just might not be in our control. Therefore, stop controlling everyone and everything! Firstly, it is simply beyond your control, and, secondly, this is how you live in constant stress.
Guilt
Stop blaming others for the fact that they have something and you do not, for the fact that they feel something and you do not, for the fact that someone succeeds in something and you do not.... You must take full responsibility for your own life!
Negative in the head
Stop talking to yourself negatively. With negative thoughts and emotions, we do ourselves irreparable harm. You should not trust everything that your reasonable and logical mind gives out. You are capable of much and much more than you think.
Complaints
If yours is so boiling and you want to speak out, talk to yourself, well, or go to a specialist. Save yourself the hassle of complaining about everything. Complainers only whine, and do not solve their problems at all.
Criticism
Do not criticize people for their appearance, actions, habits, words. Nobody is obliged to meet your expectations. All people are different.
Making an impression on others
Be natural, you don't have to pretend to make people seem better than you really are. To begin with, you should love your true Self, then you will succeed.
Resistance to change
Without changes, nothing new, good, happy will come into your life. Everyone needs change, and there is no need to be afraid and there is no need to resist. Change will help you change your life for the better.
Labels
Never label people - this one is bad, this one is good. If you are not aware of the current events, and are not familiar with the person, you do not need to do this, do not meddle in what you do not understand.
Past
Thinking and worrying about the past is like cutting sawdust. The past must be let go, even though it is difficult to do so. Accept the fact that only the present is what you have.
Fears
Your fears are an illusion, you invented them for yourself, and now you yourself are stuffing your head with them. Change your attitude towards the situation and it will become much easier for you.
Excuses
You don't owe anything to anyone. A person sometimes limits himself due to constant excuses.
Living by the expectations of others
If someone expects something from you, it is only their problem. Don't live up to someone else's expectations, stop conforming to patterns. You are who you are. You still can't be perfect for everyone.
Sometimes we live some strange life, pull on a mask and go ahead. But we do not feel happiness from this. You have only one life, so live it the way you want it. And be sure to get rid of those things that steal your happiness. Right today, right now!
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