Dabout three years, the child is particularly in need of my mother. And it's not just because he has not yet mastered the skills of self-service - between mother and child there is a strong emotional bond. Why the child begins to get nervous when the mother is not in sight and what to do with the children's affection?
Since crumb went feet, you can not be alone, even taking a shower? Mom and mother-in-one voice repeat, that you are to blame, his spoiled, accustomed to the hand and now he's Vietnamese of you the ropes. Is this the behavior of a baby or a deviation from the norm sign of spoiled?
Why not let the baby from the mother herself? Psychologists claim that such behavior of the child aged 1-2 years, it is quite natural. He does it to spite you, out of spite or out of boredom. At this age crumb begins to realize that it is not my mother a single entity, to feel the individual and it scares him. He's just afraid to lose you. Also, there are additional reasons to worry kid, that setting will be easier to change the situation.
The kid feels bad. A child needs a mother especially when not feeling well, or has something hurts. While it's hard to complain about your discomfort, but it is important that you just were there to feel your warmth and love. Take a closer look, maybe the crumbs tummy ache, he had a cold or the tormented erupting teeth.
The child feels your concern. Mother and baby are connected invisible umbilical cord, and if you are worried about something, it affects the crumbs. He does not understand yet what personal or financial problems, but "reads" your concern in seconds. And if my mother is alarmed, it means there is a danger and he needs his mother's protection.
Crumbs think you want to get rid of it. Are you tired during the day and try to quickly put the baby to sleep, transfer it to the hands of the pope or the grandmother to safely take a shower. You spend a lot of time with your child, but your thoughts were somewhere else, you are busy with homework, talking with friends, socializing in social networks. In an attempt to capture your attention, crumb starts to act up - it causes your irritation. And as a consequence of the anxiety in the child and the fear of losing you.
What if the crumb does not let his mother from himself
- Hug and kiss your baby, treat with attention to their needs in communication.
- Do not leave the house secretly, leaving the crumbs with a nanny or grandmother - be sure to say goodbye to the babyand you say that soon will return, even if it is a child's tears. Otherwise it will be afraid to lose you.
- During the games, and communicate with your child, "Do not go" to the phone or the Internet, to actively interact with them, answer their questions. The main thing is needed by a child - it is your attention, love and a sense of security.
